gift_of_gab

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[–] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 2 points 49 minutes ago

Trans rights are under attack, maybe let someone be happy if the found something to be happy about, why can’t you let them enjoy it?

I mean cool appeal to emotion but that isn't what we were talking about. The government is attacking the rights of people who are trans, including their passports, and pretending they aren't isn't helping anyone. When people were under threat from the Nazi's in the 30's would it have helped to tell people to just 'let them be happy' when the Nazi's weren't yet able to put them in camps?

[–] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

Having traveled before with someone in that exact situation, yes, there will be harassment and TSA may very well intentionally force you miss your flight and end up waiting to fly standby on the next one. But as of now, you generally do get through, which cannot be said for traveling internationally without any passport at all.

So you were in this exact scenario, TSA prevented the person from flying like we've been saying, but then didn't prevent them from flying on a standby on the next flight?

Colour me skeptical.

[–] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

Because they did issue a fully authorized passport… Even with the wrong information, the government has issues it for them to be able to travel

And because the information is inaccurate, it's pretty likely to not work as a passport.

[–] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 13 points 15 hours ago (6 children)

After hearing she was still issued a passport at all? Yes, actually. There are quite a few (trans) people who probably feel a little bit safer than they did yesterday when they thought they were trapped in the country.

How does having the wrong gender on your passport mean you aren't trapped in the country?

[–] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 3 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (2 children)

How do you handle going outside when there are random people in public, in stores, on the street, at work, who do not believe in vaccines?

Vaccines don't need to be believed in, they've worked and will always work. If the number of these people is large enough to prevent herd immunity, then I do so oblivious to their absolute callous disregard for sick children and the elderly; I simply don't know that they're awful, shitty people who claim to be human beings, who could so very easily save the lives of these sick children, yet refuse to do so, really just because they can, and it makes them feel superior.

[–] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Honestly the US is so antagonistically into 'individualism' I'm not sure how you'd even start to build that. Americans have been brainwashed into thinking that everyone else is right on the edge of breaking into their houses and raping their entire families; look at the entire idea of arming yourself with firearms to prevent 'home invasions,' and then glossing over the stats that you're magnitudes more likely to be shot by your husband than assaulted by a stranger.

I think the ideal would be a Communal approach, where each neighbourhood works to help the people inside it, and those people reach out to help others nearby, yet I am not sure the average American will trust their neighbours enough to do this. When every branch of your government is full of capitalist fascists, who can you depend on to fix your roads, get you to the hospital, put out the fire in your home? These fascists are going to cut funding to everything the 'middle class' and poor rely on, and the worst part is that a lot of those people will not only vote for it, but cheer it on right up until it effects them.

I'd love to be wrong about all of this, but I've been watching the US for my entire life, and I was born in the early 80's, and I just don't see enough of you guys caring for each other. The speed with which you turn on each other is staggering; how long did it take Democratic candidates to blame 'woke' policies or your population who are trans for losing the election? I've been told my entire life your second amendment was to protect yourself and your neighbours from the Evil Government. Then Fascists take over your government, and it's silence. I think we all knew, outside of your country, that the people most fiercely defending it just wanted to protect their hobby, but watching you allow gun violence to become the most common way for children to die broke my heart. And to then watch you not even use those weapons to protect your 2SLGBTQIA+ neighbours, to not rise up and fight back against ICE putting people in concentration camps, has removed any faith I had that just maybe you guys had something there, that maybe I just couldn't see that you'd use it to help others.

I wish you all the best of luck, yet from here it looks like yet another oligarchy where people talk a big game about fighting for each other, only to immediately back down when it looks like you might have to put your own selves on the line. I love you all and will be quietly sobbing while you defend your actions.

[–] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (4 children)

What do you say to anyone who has never had a vaccine and is in prime physique medical health?

Stop being a fucking carrier of deadly diseases.

[–] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 31 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Even if Americans actually stand up to this and General Strike or something, how long will it take anyone who isn't a white man to believe pretty much anything the American government tells them?

I was skeptical the entire country was going to fall, but now I think it is already happening. Putin won the cold war after we all thought it was over, I guess. And what a world he's provided for us...

[–] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago

"I'm your... Doge?"

I'm so sad Fascists are stealing yet ANOTHER thing they didn't come up with.

[–] gift_of_gab@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago

If this woman knew who Enrique was, she could have very easily (and intentionally) got him arrested for this

Or, and stay with me here, she's a victim who was attacked by a man who leads a group characterised as: Misogynistic, Islamophobic, transphobic and anti-immigration.

 
 

For my Canadian siblings here, who are as ancient as I am.

"Now I've had my chances with all sorts of men But none as so fine as my lad on the river..."

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by gift_of_gab@lemmy.world to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

(This is a throwaway alt for my main lemmy account because I don't want to doxx myself. I'm an ally, and my daughter is transfem, but I understand I am not. If I need to remove this post, please let me know.)

Hey all

Early this year I came out as enby. The day I came out, I decided to do something with my mid-back length long hair to feel more femme. As I combed it and actually looked in the mirror for the first time in years, I saw I had thinning hair, looked with an additional mirror/my phone, and sadly came to the realization I had the first few steps of male pattern baldness. I can still 'hide' it by combing my hair back, using a small-tooth comb, etc, but soon I won't be able to hide it.

To my surprise this caused me a massive amount of dysphoria, and I realised that I had only ever been 'clocked' as feminine due to my hair, so I had made the connection between the two. I can't use the hair foams because they are toxic to cats and I would rather die than hurt my cat. I tend to react negatively to a fair number of medicines so the pill options are pretty scary, particularly with 'permanent E.D.' being out there. My doctor said I was a good candidate for microneedling/hair transplants, but those are far, far too expensive for me.

My male friends just told me to buzz it off and be done with it. My female/enby friends told me to keep it long for now and go back to my hairdresser when it becomes harder to hide.

I wanted to reach out to my transfem sisters and siblings to see:

Do if any of you had any advice for someone who feels at least part feminine, but doesn't know what to do to be more femme when shaved headed, or like when to shave their head, etc? Should I just work on my makeup/earring/accessory skills?

Thank you so much <3

Forgot to say I am from Canada if that helps any.

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