Do you really want me to answer that for you? Is it really that hard to think for yourself?
Alright then... You get either one or the other, there's no way out of that whether you make a choice or not. Wouldn't you still want to influence the choice so you get the one that hurts a lot less?
I'd rather go home at 17:00 and do all those things with my real friends, or you know, spend some quality time with my partner.