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it seems like lemmy has a thing for fireflies (aka lightning bugs). It's sad to think of them being driven away by our actions, or not even just us not being able to see them again.

Well my yard/neighborhood is covered in them. Literally hundreds dancing in the grass of every yard, every evening and night. Like they cast light into my home with their blinking by my windows, making me look for a coming car or something. At least one gets into my home every day, much to the delight of my cats.

I get it. I love them. These things have always been special to me, and I spent 10+ yrs living in places w/o them. So now being in an area with a healthy Fire Fly population feels like such a blessing to me.

I figured it'd be cool to share some of that with those of you who miss them. I'm trying to take some pictures and video, get some good closeups, etc. I got one video of two fireflies fucking. Just gotta figure out how to organize the media I guess.

But is there anything else you'd want? Requests or something? I dunno where this is going, look, I'm just saying: you all seem to like Fire Flies. I got Fire Flies. What's next?

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[–] ThePantser@sh.itjust.works 13 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Lemmy likes fireflies now? Are you sure you are not mistaken for the new love for moths that has been going around?

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 8 points 10 hours ago

Lemmy loves moths, moths love fireflies. Transitive property.

[–] profgrumpypants@midwest.social 1 points 7 hours ago

Fireflies are wonderful, and I haven't seen them in years as I have been living in places without them. I think the fondest thing about them is sitting in quiet darkness and watching them light up the trees, talking to one another. Or when you get a nice summer rain, and there's little guys hanging out in the grass just abouts everywhere. They're also quite cute and friendly, I don't think they bite. They look so whimsical as they hover in front of your eyes for just a second.

These things are hard to catch on film I think. But the tree thing, that's pretty easy. I'd say the best thing you can do is keep your fireflies alive. Also, drop little tidbits about fireflies from time to time. To randos, and your neighbors. I know it sounds funny, but planting the seed in non-antagonizing ways has a way of getting people to care (think) about things that they typically don't notice.

I hope to see them again sometime, but I am not sure when that'll be. I really like them though, they're a steadfast symbol of summer to me.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 3 points 10 hours ago

Have you posted photos on any of mander.xyz 's communities and I missed them? I'm sure you will get engagement there

[–] MantisToboggon@lazysoci.al 3 points 11 hours ago

have sex with fireflies and make more fireflies.

[–] A_Union_of_Kobolds@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

Funny, I was just watching them in my yard thinking something similar. I've just got my phone tho, no real camera.

[–] P00ptart@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago

I can't get my phone to see them in my yard even with very little light pollution. It's kind of a bummer.