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By culture, I mean mannerisms, references and key words and phrases (like madlad, woosh, etc)

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[–] communism@lemmy.ml 9 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Solely from the parts of the lemmyverse I frequent, yes definitely. People would think you're quite silly if you talked like a redditor, even if they were too polite to openly mock you for it.

[–] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 5 points 23 minutes ago (1 children)

"This!"

"Thanks for the gold, kind stranger!"

Why do they have to say the things? People don't say the things here.

[–] IttihadChe@lemmy.ml 3 points 13 minutes ago
[–] Alaik@lemmy.zip 8 points 6 hours ago

Well reddit is mostly bots and astroturfing. Lemmy seems to have more common sense.

[–] happydoors@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I’ve been here for awhile and I’m still trying to learn lemmy specific lingo thrown out like tankie and some others

[–] Beryl@lemmy.ml 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Tankie is not Lemmy specific

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 4 points 3 hours ago

Well, nor is madlad or whoosh but tabkie is used super often in Lemmy

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 4 points 6 hours ago

They're different but they are similar. They rhyme.

[–] haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com 15 points 16 hours ago

As a reddit refugee, we have a couple more or less similar mannerisms but the system is massively different. It is intrinsically anticapitalist, not easy to censor, resistant to eee attacks, etc. It is a revolutionary platform which the antithesis of modern reddit. Reddit has started out as true and good but it has been recuperated by capitalism. Lemmy (and all alternatives, as long as decentralized) is the natural successor of reddit.

[–] xylogx@lemmy.world 11 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Every subreddit has its own vibe. Some have fully transitioned here like linux and some of the meme sharing communities. Many have not. I cannot really think of communities on Lemmy that do not exist on Reddit.

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 2 points 8 hours ago

I don't know if you would count it but wir_iel doesn't exist on Reddit but does in Lemmy

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 69 points 1 day ago

It feels more tech-geeky leftist and less AITA fantasy text/AI generated nonsense spam driven

But still pretty similar otherwise

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 53 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lemmy is closer to what Reddit was 15 years ago, before the masses piled in and made Reddit literally average.

Most of us are Reddit refugees, so we're bringing all that baggage with us, whether we want to or not.

The main draw of Lemmy for me is the feeling that I'm less exposed to the corporate BS.

[–] JillyB@beehaw.org 20 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Reddit has a bunch of "call-and-response" sort of trigger words and phrases, along with canned responses to a situation, repeated in-jokes, etc which made a lot of the site feel bloated and samey. Definitely the comments are much sparser here but there's none of that. Anytime I Google something and check a reddit thread for answers, I'm shocked at how easily any thread can turn into some blown up debate about something stupid. In general that doesn't happen here.

On the other hand, this is a pretty leftists-only echo chamber which narrows perspective. I went to the no kings protest today. If you believe Lemmy, I should have brought thrifted clothes, a 3M respirator, milk of magnesia, a first aid kit, heat resistant gloves, etc. really what I needed was an energy drink because I got tired. Lemmy can get pretty up it's own ass about the aesthetics of revolution.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 9 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (1 children)

3M respirator, milk of magnesia, a first aid kit

deployment of force can sometimes be used against you, in specific situations. please be prepared even if you don't think its gonna be today.

[–] locuester@lemmy.zip 3 points 9 hours ago (1 children)
[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

am i wrong tho

[–] fleebleneeble@reddthat.com 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I feel that it's almost more personal here on Lemmy in the sense that things feel genuine. As opposed to Reddit where bullshit abounds.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 12 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

cause you can really take part in the conversation instead of getting buried among 1000s of low effort comments

[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

This.

apologyI couldn't resisit adding a quick low effort comment to emphasize your point. I'll see myself out.

[–] greenbit@lemmy.zip 3 points 16 hours ago

We have a couple of instances with the same admin/mod powertripping culture and thinking every comment is a formal argument

Eh, culture bleeds. It mixes at the edges.

Since lemmy in specific was meant to be reddit with less overt rejection of left wing subject matter, there's so many similarities that they're going to have a lot of overlap in the kinds of people that want to use them.

Then, since lemmy was initially populated by ex reddit users, you run into the foundational culture being essentially the same. Each wave of r/efugees after that causes a fresh mixing, followed by some of those leaving and the rest adapting more towards lemmy culture norms.

The lack of ability to just r/ random words helps weed out low effort shit like woosh and thathappned. So you already have a discernable decrease in empty headed snark. There's still plenty of it, and lemmy has its own population of assholes that snark in a different way.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 19 points 1 day ago (3 children)

like madlad, woosh, etc

I haven't used Reddit for years, and I have no idea about those terms. If they're a Reddit thing, I don't recognise them.

Lemmy is also less tolerant of debate bros.

So yeah, they're different

[–] fernandofig@reddthat.com 4 points 14 hours ago

Wooosh isn't a reddit thing though. I used to see it regularly way back in the slashdot days.

[–] joshcodes@programming.dev 3 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Been seeing whoosh creep in here and I downvote where I see it. It's not funny, it's just annoying

[–] AlexanderTheDead@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago

Someone frequently misses points.

[–] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 13 hours ago

I downvote puns when the topic isn't comedic. I'm so over that shit.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 4 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

they are in jokes and memes repeated ad nauseam in the defaults. ive seen woosh used a couple of times here.

[–] CitizenX@beehaw.org 11 points 23 hours ago

I’ve found that people actually have civil conversations here. Someone states a fact, another person asks for backup, it’s provided and the person says thanks I didn’t know that. Yeah there are less people here but I would take quality over quantity any day.

[–] Schwim@lemmy.zip 16 points 1 day ago

I can't speak to the minutia but when I use Lemmy it just feels like a less popular Reddit to me. For me, that's not a bad thing, just the vibe I get.

Beans. The Lemmy version has much more beans.

[–] loomy@lemy.lol 12 points 1 day ago

it has a lot less users

[–] Admetus@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 day ago

You're a lot less likely to get downvoted for something that offends someone, even if it's just a knowledge point.

[–] Morlark@feddit.uk -2 points 21 hours ago

References and phrases don't make a culture. The words may change, but the culture here is absolutely the same as Reddit. Which is why it's so damned cringe when you see someone on Lemmy offer a smug, self-satisfied criticism of some supposed inferiority in the Reddit userbase. That kind of smugness is peak Reddit-culture.