Oh man, that's truly disheartening to see, especially how I noticed a lot more people that are being just unnecessarily mean π
Thank you for taking the appropriate steps to deal with this π
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Oh man, that's truly disheartening to see, especially how I noticed a lot more people that are being just unnecessarily mean π
Thank you for taking the appropriate steps to deal with this π
Thank you, Ada
What's "adult human female" referring to? Asking so I can keep an eye out for this in the future
Adult human female is a dog whistle used by TERFs (and transphobes more broadly) to make it clear that they are specifically excluding trans women from the definition of womanhood; that is, itβs shorthand for saying that βadult human femalesβ are the only category of person that can be called a woman.
As a Brit myself, it saddens me how much hate is leeching from my country - especially towards minorities.
Thank you to the mods for making this community open so that people like me can lurk and learn to be better, while simultaneously protecting the people who depend on and need this safe space. Defederating was the right choice.
I wonβt pretend Iβm well versed in trans issues and struggles - Iβm a cishet guy with no real skin in the game but I want to be an ally.
If anyone has good resources for someone like me to read so I can be better armed to refute and educate others who are being hateful, please let me know. The surge in hate after the recent Supreme Court ruling here in the UK has made it painfully clear being passive on the sidelines isnβt acceptable.
Huge apologies in advance if Iβve phrased anything hurtfully. I just want to learn.
Common Ada W
That's fair.
People like that will say "just block them" with one fork of their tongue, and then "sort it out through discussion and voting" with the other fork.
People like that will say "just block them" with one fork of their tongue,
Aka: "i just supply the space, I have no responsibility to make sure it's actually safe"
"sort it out through discussion and voting"
Aka: "and I don't intend to protect anyone, not my problem if you're getting attacked".
Thanks for doing what you do.
It's ridiculous we are still having to deal with this in 2025. Just yesterday I had to see someone using the tslur as a "joke" under a .world post. Mods removed it. It's not hard to be decent, although some people decide to make it look like an impossible task. As far as I'm concerned, hate speech is not free speech...
The way I see it, free speech doesn't mean freedom from consequences for what you say. You're free to walk up to the friend group and act like a jackass and personally insult everyone. And they're free to tell you to fk off and stop being friends with you and talking to you. That's not an infringement on your right to free speech, that's consequences for your actions.
These 'free speech' people act like the real world is this place where you can just approach and interrupt any conversation and enter any club without following the rules. They act like groups of like minded people getting together to share interests and ideas without wanting to constantly defend themselves and 'debate' their interests and beliefs is some new thing brought to us by the woke agenda.
And so they think social media should be this place where you can say whatever to whoever, wherever you want and if anyone has a problem with that, they're just anti 'free speech' woke libs or some shit.
This is the way.
Thank you Ada and mods. It's too easy to manipulate discussion and voting, which is why safe spaces were created.
thanks ada uwu
Stay classy, TERF Island.
trans women are not women
Wasn't this a recent court ruling in the UK? Which isn't great.
I don't know all of the terminology, but the entire argument over it just seems so stupid, how does letting trans people exist bother you in any way?
Yes, but the best thing is that it's not, like they are claiming, law. It is merely an interpretation. It doesn't stop us from doing anything we were doing previously though ultimately a lot of transphobes and business will inteprate it that way, sadly. Plus there is some whisperings of it meaning certain legal things but it isn't that yet. The Equality Act needs to be updated anyway and if it was this would make the supreme court's ruling null and void.
Even if it does mean new laws most of us will probably break them anyway as unjust laws are not worth paying any attention to.
The ruling was made in the context of a specific law and not as an absolute rulling.
Not saying I agree with it but just adding nuance even if you don't intend to explore the topic further.
Thank you for your hard work on making blahaj a great place for everyone!
Non-blahaj user weighing in
Well done πππ
thank u adaaaaa! luv u!
Thank you Ada!
Thanks Ada!
I hope the feddit.uk admins reconsider their approach to moderating transphobia, but in the mean time I appreciate your protective stance. π
Disappointing to hear from the feddit.uk. Hopefully they get their shit together, i like their admins.
I appreciate you π«Ά
Thanks for doing good moderation, honestly it sucks that certain admin teams act like this and dont take bigotry seriously.
Thanks again for all the work you do for this community. It does mean the world.