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Inspired by the recent c/AskLemmy question about Myanmar.


As a PRC-born ethnic Han-Chinese person who currently is a US Citizen and reside in the US, I'm curious on what people think of my former country.

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[–] rob_t_firefly@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

The sets of fancy expensive-looking porcelain plates and cups my older relatives all had on display in a glass-fronted cabinet for use on some theoretical special occasion, but no occasion was ever actually special enough to allow anyone to use it.

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)
  • Interesting mythology and past.
  • Technologically advancing.
  • Many ethical issues against people by the Government.
  • They are very into the illusion of being a paradise.
  • If you are a person not from there, it can be a potentially traumatizing experience, depending on what parts of the country you go to.
[–] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

If you are a person not from there, it can be a potentially traumatizing experience, depending on what parts of the country you go to.

Actually, foreigners (white foreigner to be precise) such as Youtubers Serpentza and Laowhy86 managed to go around China and make videos critical of the CCP and they didn't end up in prison or anything. But if a Chinese person attempted the same thing, they'd probably get jailed. I feel like there a sort of "foreigner privilage" that basically the CCP doesn't want to get involved in a diplomatic incident, but is otherwise happy to punish their own citizens (since there wouldn't be any diplomatic incidents).

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I didn’t even mean trauma from the gov’t, which is a whole different level, but trauma from its own people. My wife traveled to China for work and it was not great for her.

[–] Bloomcole@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Culture shock from going to an advanced society?
Not seeing mass homeless and junkies in the streets, working public transport, etc can be a bit much.

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You obviously know I meant the opposite. Not all of China is advanced. There were indeed homeless people and likely junkies. You can go into my post history if you want to see the longer story.

[–] Bloomcole@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Congratulations, you've discovered sarcasm. (see what I did here?)
China has lifted 800mln out of poverty. 3,3% under the poverty line (for now). The US banana republic has11.1%.
China is the nr 1 in homeownership in theworld BTW at 96% And not even beginning about the junkie comparison.

Your post history just shows your Sinophobia in another comment under this posts and then I have to scroll back to see your 'expertise' comes from...second hand stories from a 2 week trip your wife took once.
And that expleinss she's butthurt bcs they don't have a groteskly obese population like the US and they ridiculed her for it.
I guess it's a more original reason for badmouthing them than the normal envy the US has for losing hard to them economically.
So LOL, cope

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Thank you for teaching me sarcasm, I am in your debt. I’m also not an expert, and she’s not obese since she’s a personal trainer. You also forgot that she had a friend who also lived in the city she visited, for years might I add. It’s not just her experience. I also don’t think anyone was putting into question how fucked up the US is, because it most definitely is. The OP was asking a specific question and I answered it.

[–] Corkyskog@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

Dragon Kilns. I am addicted to their live porcelain opening channels lol.

[–] JustAnotherKay@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The first thing I think of is "propaganda" but you might not expect why. I grew up in the western world, hearing constantly that China was basically the epitome of evil. Their government is evil, their people are evil, the very land they walk on is evil, everything they've ever done has been evil. In history we only learned about their crises and the times they caused problems for the western world.

Unlike my peers, however, this made me curious. Why are you telling me so constantly that they must be evil? Can't there be good people there doing their best just like we are? And then things started getting weird in the western world. Then they got worrying. Then they started really taking their masks off and I realized "ohhhh you were projecting the whole time weren't you?"

I still don't know much about China. I don't know what your culture is really like, how the people actually treat each other. I don't know basically anything about you. I'd love to learn though, if you're willing to teach.

[–] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Their government is evil

I mean... its not entirely false. . I mean, the CCP through the one child policy did try to terminate me, since I was the second pregnancy that my mother had (she already gave birth to my older brother), so they did try to find my mother to force an abortion against her will. Then after I was born, I guess the since I already exist, its too difficult to justify killing someone who was already born, so they just let me live. My parents had to pay like somewhete like ¥10,000 to ¥20,000 (in Renminbi currency) in order for me to get legal documents, which was a lot of money at the time. So yea fuck the CCP.

But to put in in perspective, it isn't nearly as bad as North Korea, where they totally ban people from leaving.

their people are evil

Yea this is total BS. There's nothing in the DNA of ethnic Chinese that make us "evil".

Unlike my peers, however, this made me curious. Why are you telling me so constantly that they must be evil?

Like, don't think this is just a western thing.

Nationalism is a thing in every country.

In China, they teach people why Japan is evil and all Japanese people are monsters... and I'm like... "all of them?" 🤔

Then it got weirder when the US was also portrayed as evil... I mean, don't get me wrong, the US has done a lot of evil things. But its was also the US that aided China aginst the japanese invasion of China. Although controvertial, it was the US who nuked japan and that immediately stopped the war and save a lot of Chinese people.

So yea I get it, every country want to portray others as evil. Its not unique to the west.

But remember one thing:

Governments =/= The people whom they rule over

You can dislike a government without hating the people too

I still don’t know much about China. I don’t know what your culture is really like

I mean, tbh, I immigrated to the US as a kid, so I don't know much either.

I don’t know basically anything about you. I’d love to learn though, if you’re willing to teach.

I mean... do you have any specific questions to ask?

[–] edvardgm@lemm.ee -5 points 1 week ago (11 children)

Having two child rule is evil? Why? Rules makes a society, its your mom that try to break the rules? You know why they try to have 1 child policy right?

Sure they can be evil, but 1 child rule isnt evil. Imagine if 1st world countries suddenly started getting 5-10 childs everyone, everyone taking sueside cus no jobs and heavy competition on school.

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[–] PillowTalk420@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

That piano riff. You know the one.

[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Well, this post reminded to check the shipping on the electronic components and random shit I imported.

[–] eran_morad@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Useless plastic shit

[–] HipsterTenZero@dormi.zone 1 points 1 week ago

People I don't know enough about.

[–] JakeBacon@lemm.ee 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I always think about visiting due to the amazing natural and historical areas but simultaneously, how much I don't want to visit due to other issues.

Same with a lot of countries.

I yearn for the day when the world rid itself of all states, they are the source of evil.

[–] Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Rice field to magalopolis in a generation. Absolutely wild speed of seismic change.

Edit: megalopolis

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