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[–] maximilian@lemmy.ml 26 points 6 days ago

Custom 0% it’s quite simple.

[–] moonburster@lemmy.world 9 points 5 days ago

This always infuriates me. If your employees need tips to get paid enough, they're just paid too little. Don't bash the customer, bash the boss! I worked in hospitality for years and tips are purely to show gratitude for better than expected service. If you think differently about this, then you're just brainwashed

[–] Matriks404@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago
[–] secret300@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 6 days ago

Nah I'd succumb easily for "good" because I strive to be a good boy

[–] Yuper@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago (2 children)

In defense of this, I work on a service that uses square and allows tips. One of the issues with square tips is you can only ask for percentages, not dollar amounts. Since the service I work on usually costs $1-2, we have to put in high percentages for tips in order for it to be meaningful. I believe ours is set to 25, 50, 75 and 100%. Which is usually equivalent to <$2. They could have had a similar situation here except whatever service they offer ended up being far higher than normal.

[–] Woht24@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

Talk about licking the boot that's stomping you.

[–] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

How can it even be profitable for a business to charge $2 for enough individual service to be tip worthy

[–] Yuper@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Lots of thing cost $1-2 that you might want to tip for. Bartending during drink specials, valet, coat check, bag check, bell hop, etc.

[–] Diddlydee@feddit.uk 73 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That's wild. If we go out for a meal (UK) we'll just leave whatever change we have on the table or hand it to the waitress that served us, maybe 5 to 10 quid. If they try to make it a part of the payment, they'll get nothing.

[–] dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 82 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

That's because the UK has stronger wage protections than the US. Here the Federal minimum wage for "tipped positions," which are their own special category, is only $2.13 per hour. The management literally expects you, the customer, to make up for their payroll shortfall.

Related fun fact: The reason the US (still) has such a tipping culture at all is, as usual, the result of post-slavery racism when business owners flat out refused to actually pay any of their newly freed black employees, and instead demanded their customers to do it for them. For those positions, tips were the only way those people got paid.

So yes, US business owners would absolutely force their employees to work for no pay if they could get away with it.

[–] Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

$2.13 is true and wrong.

The minimum wage plus tips is $7.25.

In other words, if you tip someone under federal law, and that person works 40 hours per week, after 1 week, 40*5 = $200 were stolen from your tips by the employer from employee. As if the person earned $0 in tips, the $200 would have to be covered by the employer.

[–] dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

And in reality, the number of restaraunts which track tips and actually make up the $7.25 difference is functionally zero.

The management is explicitly operating under the assumption that they'll weasel out of it anyhow with the expectation that you'll pay it yourself on top of their already profitable menu price.

[–] Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My point wasn't that wait staff is paid better than 2.15. my point is, they are getting robbed.

[–] dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

Ah, yes. I made a slight edit; we're largely making the same point.

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Semi-hijacking: delivery apps are notoriously good at finding legal loopholes and can very often pay sub minimum wage in places other than the US too. As a European, I try not to order food from them, but when I do, those are the only people I tip more than 10%/rounding up.

[–] Walican132@lemmy.today 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I live in a state where our servers make state minimum wage. 16+ dollars an hour. They still ask for tips. So the fed minimum doesn’t really change anything in making up the payroll shortfall.

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[–] DmMacniel@feddit.org 52 points 1 week ago (2 children)

lol 100% tip? Your tipping culture is so bad.

[–] MyRobotShitsBolts@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's not just the tipping part of our culture that's bad. The entire thing is rot.

[–] DmMacniel@feddit.org 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

maybe a revolution would be in order. :)

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[–] atomicorange@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I’ve never seen anything above 30% suggested anywhere in the US. This is an extreme outlier and would make even people used to our crazy tipping culture balk.

[–] QualifiedKitten@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I have most definitely seen higher effective suggestions at coffee shops. I ordered a single drip coffee (~$2.50) and the suggestions were $1, $2, or $3.

[–] PiratePanPan@lemmy.dbzer0.com 44 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Does anyone just not tip anymore if it's counter service? It does not require that much effort to take something from a glass case and give it to me.

If you're actively walking around, giving me and checking in on my meal, that's when I tip.

[–] BraveryDuck@ani.social 4 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

anymore

Never did.

[–] xor@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 days ago

if i have a bunch of questions and they have a bunch of answers i might tip… otherwise, never

[–] bokherif@lemmy.world 29 points 1 week ago

Full table service = tip Otherwise you’ll get nothing from me

[–] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago

It's an automatic $0 tip if I have 0 interaction with anyone but the cashier, that's for sure.

[–] Rin@lemm.ee 42 points 1 week ago (2 children)
[–] fl42v@lemmy.ml 5 points 6 days ago
[–] jdf038@mander.xyz 8 points 1 week ago

If I saw those numbers it would be cancel then shop elsewhere

[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 37 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'd cancel my order and leave.

[–] Mickey7@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'd hit the custom button and leave my customary 20%. If course if they gave me any shit I would never return

[–] archonet@lemy.lol 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

For this? I'd hit the custom button and put in $0.02, and then tell them exactly why they're getting that tip. I only get "thank you!" if I double the cost of my order? fuck off. 30% is not a "so-so" tip, that's the upper end of the best tips I give.

[–] adarza@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago

error. must be between 150% and 1000%

[–] FelixCress@lemmy.world 33 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Tip is a recognition of an excellent service, not a right. I would pay without any tip and leave some cash on the table if the service was good (few pounds usually).

[–] RedditWanderer@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

Thats europe. In north america, waiters are paid below minimum wage and the tips are supposed to make up the rest.

15% i think is still what the gov expects for wages, so in theory thats for just plain service, forcing us to either hurt the waiter or pay the fee. It's a terrible system. I prefer to not eat out at all than to cut tips, even for poor service i'll leave 10% and won't go back.

[–] MonkeyTown@midwest.social 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Most people who work the service industry don’t claim cash tips, but credit tips are required to be claimed due to the whole being electronic and traceable thing.

If, as a service person, most or all tips are in cash, you just claim whatever brings you to minimum wage for that pay period.

This is obviously heavily dependent upon where you work - some places want you to claim all tips (but you still don’t claim cash usually) others, especially if you make above min wage like most bartenders, don’t care.

However, if you don’t claim those tips you can’t use that as income when taking out loans and applying for housing and whatever else. So it’s fucks people over pretty regularly.

[–] exasperation@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The vast majority of full service restaurant transactions are by card. Something like 80% of restaurant transactions are by card, and full service restaurants with servers are even higher.

There's not a ton of cash tips at this point, so underreporting cash tips doesn't make as big of a difference as it used to.

[–] MonkeyTown@midwest.social 1 points 3 days ago

Your experience/statistic there is very different from my experience. It definitely depends where you are and how high-end the place is.

Place I work now, most tips are cash, by a substantial margin. Even when paying with card about half of our customers tip cash, and most transactions at this place are cash anyway. Places I worked previously were like a 50/50 split if people paid more often with cash or card, and again about a quarter of people paying card still tip cash.

Maybe because this is a low cost of living area, and everyone knows moving claims cash tips, maybe because it’s all small town stuff, idk.

[–] adarza@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago

a tipped employee who does that work for years will also see shit for social security later on, as that's based on your reported and taxed earnings.

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[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Americans, your tip coulture makes the rich richer. Having labour laws and unions in place, forcing the payment of a decent minimun wage and the extinction of tip culture would transfer the responsibility to the owner.

Edit: before you say "prices woild go up" 1- you alredy pay "up". 2- He can only go so much higher before he starts to loose clients.

[–] MattTheProgrammer@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Now is really not the time to be nitpicking the lesser points of American culture. We're kind of dealing with an existential crisis at the moment.

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

lol you are right. But maybe something small will be the last grain of sand that'll make the bag burst

[–] Gingerlegs@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Fuck this place, if it’s real

[–] kinsnik@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I have seen this around multiple times. I really doubt that it is real. The whole working-for-tips system is messed up, thou, but the biggest I have ever seen recommended is 25%

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[–] mcqtom@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago

This business is so out of touch. Everybody knows "so-so" means the same thing as "okay".

[–] 97xBang@feddit.online 9 points 1 week ago

20%
($19.00)
terrible

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