my VPS doesn't use a VPN, but I use Mullvad on my PC. when Mullvad is connected, I can't SSH into my remote server. here's the debug output:
debug3: ssh_connect_direct: entering
debug1: Connecting to [REMOTE_IP_ADDRESS] port 53.
debug3: set_sock_tos: set socket 3 IP_TOS 0x48
debug1: connect to address [REMOTE_IP_ADDRESS] port 53: Connection refused
ssh: connect to host [REMOTE_IP_ADDRESS] port 53: Connection refused
split tunneling the terminal works, but my hotel Wi-Fi blocks SSH connections, so I need to hide it through Mullvad. enabling 'local network sharing' in Mullvad doesn't help (not sure if that's even relevant since I'm connecting to a remote server). how can I SSH while using Mullvad?
Note: i use wireguard (automatic port) over shadowsocks (443 port).