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Feminine shorts? (artemis.camp)

submitted 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) by eleqtric-conjurer@artemis.camp to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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I want some gender-neutral to moderately feminine shorts to wear. First of all, I’m not sure exactly what that means - what makes shorts masculine or feminine? Secondly, do you have any recommendations of brands or stores for some mildly feminine shorts?

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[–] violetraven@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 years ago

Shorter shorts are typically deemed more feminine. I got shorts from Target that were nice and didn't cost too much.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 years ago

I find high waisted short shorts to be very fem and flattering. I dont really have any recs tho, I havent had much luck finding any lately.

[–] boogetyboo@aussie.zone 8 points 2 years ago

'Feminine' shorts tend to be shorter in length, wider at the hips - whereas men's shorts tend to be straight down from the waist - and, and this is the bad news - have tiny pointless pockets.

Something that happens to women a lot is their phone flipping out of their back pocket when they go to sit down on the toilet. Often into the toilet. Because the pocket is too shallow. It's a thing.

[–] Velonie@beehaw.org 4 points 2 years ago

Jean shorts and wide flared skirt/short hybrids are my go-to

[–] anothercatgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago

I have two pairs, one is from so sporty, and the other is from Justice. Both are short-shorts that are probably only good as under-skirt wear.

[–] CyberTailor@beehaw.org 1 points 2 years ago

skorts