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Choosing Beggars
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Stories of people who are being way too picky when it comes to who they beg for a relationship or any other matter.
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Some of us live in countries with a living minimum wage. But this tipping bullshit washes up on our shores anyway.
it is objectively more messed up that employers aren't paying enough that wages need to be subsidized with tips
"stiffing people" is language that implies they are entitled to the tip, which they are not as it's a tip. Expecting a tip is falling victim to the propaganda that enables employers to maintain low wages. By continuing to tip because "that's what people do" you're only further cementing this culture.
If more people refrained from tipping or tipping excessively when not appropriate, then employers would have to increase wages. That's how to solve the problem.
When I tip, I tip 20%, but I'm not going to begin tipping at a grocery store or getting a coffee unless it's a small, local establishment.
But most people don’t so your individual effort without any effort to bring more people on board is you pretending that you’re somehow hurting employers, which you aren’t.