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Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

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Official Title of this Community: Ethnic Minorities and People of Color

Why is the title different?

We like to have fun here.

What is this place? A safe space for underrepresented peoples and peoples of color to talk, chill, and vibe.

What are the basic rules of the community?

  1. Follow Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines. Non negotiable. This is the bedrock and mods will make decisions with this always in mind.

  2. This community is for ethnic minorities and people of color. This is a safe space where such people can freely discuss their struggles, insight, and thoughts without fear. If you are not, we respectfully ask you do not post or comment here. A future community will be established to allow for racial discussions with a mixed userbase. However, remember, comments here must still respect Lemmy TOS and Community Guidelines.

  3. Irony Racism is still racism. Racism is bad m'kay? We will treat irony racism and bad faith racist satire as racism. Will wield the ban hammer accordingly.

  4. No sectarianism: This is an identity channel not a channel for you all to complain about why XYZ isn't the "one true leftism". Take that to another place.

  5. Stupidpol is not allowed. Stupidpol is class reductionist. We are an identity community. Thinking like stupidpol ignores the struggles of the oppressed, their voices, and their need for unique support. Nothing says oppression more than someone saying that the identity you have is "not real" and that if you only thought like them you'd see what your "real" identity is. Mods reserve the right to ban users and content who promote stupidpol, stupidpol memes, and other class reductionist thinking.

FAQ

I don't look XYZ and/or sometimes I can pass as white so I don't know if I can post here. Can I?

What can I post?

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 13 points 6 days ago (4 children)

Thinking of my crushes so far and it's mostly been towards white people, especially on online spaces it's just hard enough finding people with my similar interests and political leanings. Idk how to feel on it sometimes it's like no matter how well I might click with someone I'm crushing on I do worry on them not quite getting a lot of stuff or having any real frame of reference where I'm coming from. I'm probably too immature to date anyway but it's something I think about from time to time.

[–] anarchoilluminati@hexbear.net 10 points 6 days ago

If it's any consolation, there are a lot of White people in this country (too many) as it is so unless you're deliberately focusing on POC you'll likely end up in cracker country.

[–] Rojo27@hexbear.net 8 points 5 days ago

I've had the luck of mostly being surrounded by POC for most of my life and being able to find people that have similar interests and, to a lesser extent, political leanings.

[–] Belly_Beanis@hexbear.net 13 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I'm related to every Filipino within a 45 mile radius lmao. I've never been able to date within my own ethnicity. It's already difficult finding people with similar values. Then trying to find someone not infected with racist brainworms? Feels impossible.

[–] anarchoilluminati@hexbear.net 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Can totally relate. Usually have some connection to my people near me. Haha

[–] Angel@hexbear.net 8 points 6 days ago

Same exact experience because of my interests, values, and dating requirements. Seeking Black people who align with my ideal traits for a partner is always gonna be seeking an extreme minority within a minority, but at this rate, being single forever seems preferable to dating bleach demons (or non-Black people in general). I'm not a fan of amatonormativity in the first place.