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A majority of them have never even been to California yet they seem to talk about it/bash it non-stop.

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[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 61 points 4 days ago (8 children)

It holds a level of cultural and economic dominance over much of the country to the point where it can often feel similar to how America does to Europeans.

They make our art, they grow our food, and they represent us on a cultural stage to the world. And for a lot of middle America you will never be able to afford to move there, but some of your neighbors and friends will, and they'll love it.

There's a lot of sour grapes in California hate, because Iowa, Missouri, ohio, etc know they're flyover states, they know they're never going to be the powerhouses that California is. So you watch your Los Angeles media on a Silicon Valley device eating your San Joaquin vegetables thinking about your childhood friend who couldn't take it here and got into a UC and never moved back. There's some bitterness if you left your small town, but if you didn't even manage that…

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 3 points 4 days ago (3 children)

they wont be powerhouses if they keep voting for the gop.

[–] haloduder@thelemmy.club 2 points 4 days ago

I agree. California has a great geographical advantage, but it's not what makes the state so attractive to live in.

People don't like a cloistered lifestyle unless they've lived in it their entire lives. This means that new people considering moving to 'flyover states' have to contend with the local tribe that has been conned into thinking abortion kills babies and immigrants are sent by the devil.

It's extremely difficult to break this trend, but I think we should be doing what we can to reach those who didn't have the opportunities we did.

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