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I was describing my insane in-laws for the record.
Oh, and maybe you should consider not thinking of the term "OCD" as an insult. Maybe that's where our difference in perspectives lie: I simply don't consider it an insult, but what it actually is: a mental condition (or perhaps it's more accurate to say it's a symptom that's indicative of one). People are okay talking about depression, ADHD, etc. - why not the same for OCD?
It's a factual condition, not an insult - unless someone decides to make it one, which unfortunately happens all the time. Some people use the word "Jew" as a slur - does that then make all utterances of the word a slur? No, that's absurd. Intent matters, and the same applies with any other words/terms like OCD.
I suggest listening to and/or watching some early George Carlin routines like Class Clown. Much of his comedy was based upon how words are used and interpreted.
I don't think of it as an insult generally, but it reads like an insult in this context to me since you certainly weren't using it a clinical sense and it doesn't land as a joke imo; now you can say that's all on me if you want but communication has 2+ parties involved. Even if it wasn't meant as an insult, it is still ableist language in this context imo and I will call it out even if it makes people uncomfortable.
Well, I'll admit I'm older and perhaps less sensitive to that notion than I should be - particularly as I never heard that term until the past decade or so. There are times when I can definitely see the issue, and then there's times like this that I just don't - or just think the sensitivity towards the topic is being taken too far beyond reasonable expectations. Guess we'll have to agree to disagree on the point.