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Life is hard whether you're ignorant or not, whether you're kind or not. There's no way to make life simple or always comfortable. So I think you're better off choosing to be not ignorant, and to be kind.
I like your take, I think most of the "advantages" of beign ignorant come from the increased damage we'd cause to others, directly or indirectly, without mental ripercussion; so ultimately we'd all just suffer way more.
I get that POV, but ultimately, water finds its own level. There is always going to be so much out of your control. It's like "play the hand you're dealt". In a poker game, you don't get to decide your hand. You can only play it as well as you can.