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[–] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I've recently come to the position that really, there isn't truly such a thing as incorrect grammar. There's grammar that doesn't fit the norm for the people one is speaking to, and if it's different enough to impair the ability for the intended audience to understand what you're communicating it can be impractical or inadvisable, but since grammar isn't an intrinsic part of the universe outside of human creation, and since the way it's used changes whenever people "break it's rules" in numbers over time, it can't actually be wrong. After all, someone could view something written in a very closely related foreign dialect as another similar language written correctly, or one's own language written incorrectly, and there isn't really a non-arbitrary way to decide which is the case.

[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 5 points 6 days ago (2 children)

This is just practically and technically wrong. You're lightyears off.

Of course there are incorrect grammars. They wouldn't be called grammar. While the tolerance for these errs is greater than the textbook, if you stray too far then the meaning you're trying to convey would be lost.

No, grammar isn't some kind of made up notion. Without grammars, it's just a bunch of words with no meaning.

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Grammar is literally just some made up notion

[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 0 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You literally wouldn't be able to write this without it...

I mean, what would be the altenative? Throw a bunch of relevant words in random order and hope that someone would understand?

Notion is literally just some made up grammar

I bet this one would convey anything but what you'd mean originally.

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 3 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

What I wrote is grammatically incorrect, there is no full stop. You understood what I meant with no ambiguity despite an incorrect use of grammar. I literally did write that without adhering to grammatical rules and it didn't impede either of our abilities to communicate.

[–] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Of course it is correct! Let me break it down for you.

Grammar is literally just some made up notion

Subject: Grammar

Verb: Be -> Is

Adverb: Literally, Just

Pronoun: Some

Adjective: Made-up

Object: Notion

The lack of full stop is indeed an error. But the structure of your sentence is still valid.

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yeah almost like in different contexts different grammar is appropriate exactly like the original comment said you evolutionary col-de-sac

[–] crimsonpoodle@pawb.social 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

I think you guys are fighting about different things; you need to have a unified definition of grammar.

One is saying that without some rules on how the words relate to one another we couldn’t convey our meaning.

The other is saying that grammar, I think perhaps “proper grammar” is made up by humans, and so doesn’t have any intrinsic worth compared with something else made up by humans.

Both are correct, the important thing is that whichever grammar we collectively decide on. Intrinsically worthless or not, we need to have some unified definition, codified or not, so that we have the necessary degree of specificity for a given situation to transfer information between parties.

[–] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 days ago

I like to say, for instance, "pool-go" instead of "go to the pool" when I'm amongst friends, because I'm pretty sure I heard constructions like this in a novel once where aliens learned to talk English. But incorrect, or at the very least uncommon usage like that definitely straddles the line between comprehensible and unintelligible.