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That's a phrase that I heard recently, and I think that it's from some famous philosopher, but uhm...

I don't know how to debunk it.

I'm doing my best to believe without thinking too much about that.

Some days it gets hard tho, so I'd like to hear you guys' take on it.

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[–] freeman@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We let Satan into our lives because Eve (not we) ate from the fruit of the forbidden tree? Inheritance of punishments is one of the many reprehensible staples of Abrahamic religions.

[–] sunflowercowboy@feddit.org -5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Well, we actually let satan in through Judaism. In which he is more of an accuser/prosecuter. Hence you yourself can be said to be satan for accusing blame.

The genesis myth isn't literal.

The garden of eve is innocence or naïveté. Kids have what we as adults would conceive as a literal heaven. Sure, chores and whatnot, but you get to play and have some form of freedom. Actual freedom built on the backs of your parents, the keepers of your prison.

As you age, you learn and become disullusioned. You eat from the fruit of knowledge. It becomes a curse as you truly awaken from the lies you were told. However, if you are able to supersede your ego bruising. You will find the power that knowledge can also wield, and liberate you.

This is why most people leave christianity. Sometimes people can return and see the value. Fascist pig insult comes in clutch and we must be thankful for that gift at least.

(There is also the heavy sexual undertones with a 'snake,' for some reason folks forget people use metaphors - especially when talking to kids about series topics.)

[–] freeman@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I am aware of the 'knowledge destroys innocence' claim of christianity. I do not subscribe to it, whether it's knowledge in general or sexual 'knowledge'.

You take a major split from most christians when you say this knowledge will be the one that liberates (what exactly does liberate mean for you?) you. Christ's sacrifice also need to be re-contextualized.

For them salvation (sometimes called liberation) is achieved through acceptance of christ explicitly (an oath of fealty) as well as trying to return to innocence (especially sexual innocence). A core part is that you cannot succeed in returning to innocence since you are mortal thus you need christ to forgive your sins.

Some believe you will be actively eternally punished if you fail to do so, others that will simply miss out on afterlife. Both are incredibly harsh and disproportionate punishments for even murderers let alone people who just are sexually promiscuous and not sorry, or perhaps simply do not believe in God.

Unfortunately most people don't leave christianity, ironically you seem to have gone quite afar yourself. Your beliefs seem to be a bit less hateful and harmful, though I can't be sure how honest you arr or if you are just engaging in apologia.

[–] sunflowercowboy@feddit.org 0 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Knowledge destroys naïveté. Innocence is not lost until you do act. I mean the broadest term of knowledge, sexuality just applies as usually this is how dominion is expressed. Why the Jewish faith banned sodomy, domination and humiliation of egyptian culture back then. Same threat woman fall under often times.

Knowledge affords you the ability to act. Say your mind is a void and knowledge fills it, hence you can begin to warp the world to your desires via that knowledge. It liberates you by affording you control, to an extent. Beyond this, it also allows you to know how to circumvent dangers too. Information is powerful, it can free you from the clutches of those who have power over you.

Christ sacrificed himself by speaking out, he didn't save anyone. The point is that you can save yourself with his message. Act now before you cannot act. Live before you cannot live. Hell is the domain that Christ lived in, Helia. Hence, hell is just living in your material realm.

Heaven however is much more, it is the ascension of people. Not by god but by people. Be kind to people, be their champion, and they too shall hold you up to the heavens. When you go, your absence will be felt and they will carry a fragment of your soul with them. (Soul being their intent, will, etc.) Grieving gives us something, not just loss. Combine this with your self ascension into imagination through the use of child-like wonder, you will enjoy simple pleasures. Losing necessity for depravity.

In short, karma. You do bad, you feel bad, you see bad, and you project bad. Your fixation on bad will then drive you mad, why honesty and repenting is important. To free the soul and grow. You do good, you feel good, you see good, and you project good. Hence, good standing creates a positive sense all around you.

Same logic aplies to the 'evil eye' curse. You as the observer can see good or bad. Our envy and own emotions can contort what is before us. See a man succeed and you feel jealousy, even though nothing was taken from you. You can hyperfixate and cause actual harm, to them or to yourself. (ignoring things you should actually focus on usually) Others can do the same.

I follow the rule of; if you see the buddha on the side of the road - kill him. Fixating on the buddha does you no benefit when you are on your own journey to become like him. All it can do is halt your journey as you fixate. If buddha is the 'deity' of buddhism, I apply it everywhere.

Ground a god and make them mortal, only then can you learn from them. What can a god teach you when they cannot understand mortality?