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[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

As a man, it's not even a comparison and it's insulting to women to even suggest it.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

you dint go through the same struggles as a woman they did. and alot of it, especially social media comes from a place of misogyny(accusing women of misandry, and im a guy too. i only ever seen it use as a deflection tool from thier ownself why they cant get with women.

yes there are man-hating women out there, but im betting mysogynistic men far exceeds that.

[–] Flickerby@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Specifically, no one is comparing them except you. It's okay for two groups of people to have shitty experiences at once. It's not a competition or a fight, I don't understand why people keep trying to insist on making it a "one vs the other" thing.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Really? Nobody compares them? Maybe not here, but... Seriously? Is this your first day on the internet?

[–] Flickerby@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I can only speak for myself. If you're trying to lay the entirety of the Internet's behavior on a specific person or group of people then that's a pretty shitty personal take that you can take personal responsibility for.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Specifically, no one is comparing them except you.

You just said this though. How is this just speaking for yourself?

[–] Flickerby@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Would you like me to amend it to "No in this immediate conversation is comparing the two"? I figured you got that considering you said

Maybe not here

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Why are you getting so defensive about me pointing out the behavior of other people on the internet? Kind of a weird reaction.

[–] Bongles@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

As a third party, it's probably because you're being pedantic. No one in the conversation was originally comparing misogyny to misandry. So after the comment "it's not even comparable" it's obvious that the following comment of "no one's comparing them" means this conversation. So really harping on the idea of anybody anywhere on the internet comparing these things is irrelevant.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

I was not being pedantic, I was responding to ~~your~~ their argument before ~~you~~ they straight up changed it mid conversation.

Edit: fixed.

[–] Bongles@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

As a third party ...

Wasn't me.

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Oh I guess that completely shuts down my argument... wait, no. Nevermind.