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disclaimer this is from circa 2020 but feels relevant to the people dancing to mariachi getting tear gassed today

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[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago (22 children)

True, but I've made it a point to get out of the mindset, ease up on that programming. I started realising that being hyper-entwined with the current mess reduces my creativity's field of view and limits what I can picture beyond the system itself.

By getting out of that mindspace, I hope to clear up some creative bandwidth, so that I may start dreaming of better alternatives. Because all I have right now is "gestures vaguely at Star Trek," and I need more.

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago (21 children)

Try reading 'walkaway' and 'the dispossessed'.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago (20 children)

Thank you! The more the merrier, throw'em at me!

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Okay where are you and can you like hold up something so i know its you? I don't want to get the wrong person.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm currently at the ass-end of Despairville, I'm the bloke in black who's huddled in a corner, crying:)))

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

'Bloke'; don't think we're on the same continent.

Ill need a bigger trebuchet lots more math abd books that wont burn up on re-entry

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Well, I think I'm still somewhere in Europe, so maybe something low atmo will suffice, avoid some of that friction:-? Dunno, maybe tin foil?:-?

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I dunno. I'm kind of shit at orbital dynamics.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Eh, we'll figure it out somehow!:)) If not, at least I doubt anyone around here would mind if I were to... procure the books through other means:"

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Im more concerned with how to throw them.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Hmm, fair point:-? I think you had it the first time, a trebuchet would cover the distance if the payload weighs as much as a book:-? Just have to make it aerodynamic!

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

(alarms blaring)

Sir, two icbm's have been stolen.

oh my god. This could be world war thr-

no, no sir. Just the missiles. They left the warheads right over there.

I... Well, have we found them?

yes sir. They stopped briefly at the local library, found it was closed, and are frying to launch from the parking lot behind a used book store. Our guys can't figure out what to do.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Now this is an elevator pitch I'd turn into a two-parter! Y'know? Add lotsa' drama, the premise is thus, yes, but imagine the people who would do that, how much there'd be to dig and explore there!

Oh, and it's all played cheerful and upbeat! Heartbreaking moments, juuust heartbreaking! But leaves you with a warm smile and love for humanity at the end!

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

with a love for humanity at the end

Oh. So I'm cut out of my own story.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

...what? No! How... why... what?!=)))))

C'moon, you were supposed to be the main character! Like, obviously!=))) The public doesn't want to see someone unboxing the gift, they wanna know who sent it, why, and how it got there!

Dammit, I'm having flashbacks to the first time someone asked me if I'd still love them were they a worm, the deer in the headlights is strong with me=)))

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

if i were a worm

Oh if somebody answered this without showing their work, it would be over. It's like the 'what even is reincarnation' question.

main character

Clearly not.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

But... but... the story makes no sense that way! The plot... the character drama, the arcs, none of it works without you!

I need a Xanax... I need to talk to the Producer... I need the Producer to bring me a Xanax and a body bag, because you've MURDERED my vision!

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

If I'm the main character, nobody's gonna leave the theatre loving humanity.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

HA! Demonstrably untrue if the interaction is of any indication, there's at least one person who'd enjoy themselves: me!😈

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Sorry i can't do earnest positive engagement.

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Dunno, seemed to be handling the banter just fine! Even made me want to join in and keep it going, I'm generally not that participative:))

Only enabled by multiple layers of total irony poisoning.

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago)

No comment.

Edit: cant do earnest positive engagement, sorry!

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