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100% my own opinion as a 37y/o male who would never find myself in this scenario. This isn't a commentary on any other scenarios or sexual preferences except imagining myself in OP's presented scenario.
No - Then fuckin roll the dice.
Yes w/o asking 1st - Then it's incredibly creepy if they find a porn of themselves in your possession and opens a can of worms about what means you used to make it and the integrity of that means to protect the created porn from being viewable by others.
Yes w/asking 1st - Then prepare for an incredibly awkward conversation where you explain why you'd rather spend time making an AI porn of the person you're fucking instead of spending the time with them or actually romancing/fucking them. Even if they aren't completely turned off by this scenario then you still look like an ass for wanting to use AI to make porn of SO instead of just asking them to record your own together.
Long distance/extended periods of time away for each other.
Disabilities where sex is off the table.
SO already has public accessible media of themselves fucking.