this post was submitted on 14 Mar 2025
907 points (98.4% liked)

News

27517 readers
4217 users here now

Welcome to the News community!

Rules:

1. Be civil


Attack the argument, not the person. No racism/sexism/bigotry. Good faith argumentation only. This includes accusing another user of being a bot or paid actor. Trolling is uncivil and is grounds for removal and/or a community ban. Do not respond to rule-breaking content; report it and move on.


2. All posts should contain a source (url) that is as reliable and unbiased as possible and must only contain one link.


Obvious right or left wing sources will be removed at the mods discretion. Supporting links can be added in comments or posted seperately but not to the post body.


3. No bots, spam or self-promotion.


Only approved bots, which follow the guidelines for bots set by the instance, are allowed.


4. Post titles should be the same as the article used as source.


Posts which titles don’t match the source won’t be removed, but the autoMod will notify you, and if your title misrepresents the original article, the post will be deleted. If the site changed their headline, the bot might still contact you, just ignore it, we won’t delete your post.


5. Only recent news is allowed.


Posts must be news from the most recent 30 days.


6. All posts must be news articles.


No opinion pieces, Listicles, editorials or celebrity gossip is allowed. All posts will be judged on a case-by-case basis.


7. No duplicate posts.


If a source you used was already posted by someone else, the autoMod will leave a message. Please remove your post if the autoMod is correct. If the post that matches your post is very old, we refer you to rule 5.


8. Misinformation is prohibited.


Misinformation / propaganda is strictly prohibited. Any comment or post containing or linking to misinformation will be removed. If you feel that your post has been removed in error, credible sources must be provided.


9. No link shorteners.


The auto mod will contact you if a link shortener is detected, please delete your post if they are right.


10. Don't copy entire article in your post body


For copyright reasons, you are not allowed to copy an entire article into your post body. This is an instance wide rule, that is strictly enforced in this community.

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] VanillaFrosty@lemmy.world -1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Brother, sister, or other in the current context it's a clear joke to show who is the "Dominant" and who is the "submissive". If you understand current social dynamics, youd know that. Now we can have a conversation on if that's appropriate considering the view is shaped by human histories use of rape as a weapon, especially when subjecting others, but that's getting so unnecessarily deep. I can just understand this is a joke using modern social dynamics.

Also, I'm Bi. I've been with two guys throughout my years. Or do I get to have another conversation on how I'm not actually gay?

[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 0 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

...i know? obviously it's that, nobody was debating that fact. my point is that the automatic agreement that having sex with men makes you submissive is inherently homophobic.

imagine if instead if the insult was like, "he's such a woman, i bet he loves cooking, cleaning and looking after republicans!", I imagine you'd correctly interpret the sexism in there. the original message was homophobic in the same way.

and i don't care how gay you are or aren't, you have zero authority to tell people that they're not allowed to find something discriminatory

[–] VanillaFrosty@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 55 minutes ago)

I mean yeah, that would get the same point across? The specific use of the word woman makes that sexist. So your example is disingenuous. At no time did op call Schumer gay.

Leave out the woman part and it is the same joke, with the same implications, but no sexism. Much like there is no homophobia in the original joke. Understanding social norms and implications isn't homophobic.

I have every authority to tell you what I find discriminatory. You're welcome to tell me you feel insulted by what I say, and if we were actually in the real world I would be sure to avoid such jokes around you (if we interacted on a consistent basis). But I'm my circle, this is a nothing burger.

It's like a Trump supporter would get offended when you make fun of Trump's tiny hands. Should we do our best to avoid offendeding them? Or are there certain people it's ok to offend?

Maybe we avoid making the joke because it might offended people with tiny hands? The joke works because it bothers Trump, not because there is anything with tiny hands. But hey just because some people might get upset it's not an ok joke to use.

This is the Internet. This is a melting pot of different people. I'm not gonna tailor every joke and every response to your sensibilities, or anyone else's. Grow up.