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I definitely dont want to continue the cycle, rather I choose to break the chain of suffering. Doesnt matter what happened or who did it previously, I choose differently today
One of my parents literally used us a passive income source and all the slave labor she could squeeze so I ~~resent~~ contempt (resent is for your superiors and she is no such thing, contempt is for those below you) her just for that a billion suns worth of loathing and reason for no contact
And she's very much the type that will rave about any decision she made (she considers grave mistakes) that allowed me to break free from her shit when she gets frustrated or pissed off I don't do what she wants which is doubly offensive and grounds for termination ;)