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When i was eight years old, I had chili at a fast food place. It came with a little satchel of "hot" sauce and I put it in, over the advice of my father.
It was so hot I burst into tears.
Now I routinely eat stuff like this (from the red side only!) and barely break a sweat, and that tear-inducing chili wouldn't even register as trying to be spicy:
Tolerance building is an actual thing.
It’s really weird. Now I’m beginning to understand those chili eating competitions, habanero challenges and all that. If you’ve been doing this for years, you can probably eat just about anything. I built a surprising amount of tolerance in a day, but then again, I did start from zero.
I don't know what those Turkish things are, but perhaps Chinese 辣条 (lit. "spicy strip") could take their place if you'd prefer something more chewy in texture. They come in a bewildering variety of flavours, textures, and spice levels that range from "huh, that's got a bit of a bite" to "OMFGICAN'TFEELMYMOUTHTHROUGHTHEFLAMES!".
This one is on the lower end of medium spice and is intended to be "beef" flavoured. It's OK. Not spicy enough for my needs, though.
Coincidentally, there’s a Chinese store nearby. I think I need to check if they have something like that available.
The way to ask for them is to either show that picture (they'll know what it is instantly from that) or "LAH TEE-OW" with the latter pronounced as a single syllable.