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[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 2 points 2 weeks ago

Rest up comrade!

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Depends on the severity, but stuff like that usually restricts my movement for 3-5 days. I'll do nsaids and ice/hot packs before bed and make sure to stay hydrated

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 2 points 3 weeks ago

I felt the exact same! Curious to see if this album disappoints like the previous

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 5 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Okay but Disease is a jam

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 9 points 3 weeks ago

"If they don’t want to work in the office and contribute to making America great again, then they are free to choose a different line of work, and the Trump Administration will provide a very generous payout of 8 months."

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

When it makes me sick, yeah

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 3 points 1 month ago

I'm learning that the easiest way for me to do things on a consistent basis is to have the Process of Doing the Thing prepared and thought out beforehand; kind of like a time frame for a to-do list to complete each task. I will say I have AuDHD with OCD tendencies so this may seem way overcomplicated.

As an example, I brush my teeth first thing every morning, and to start my going-to-bed routine. It takes about 5 minutes. The process is: Go to bathroom > get toothbrush > get toothpaste > apply toothpaste to toothbrush > put toothpaste back> brush teeth > rinse toothbrush> put toothbrush back

The more I do things the exact same way, the less I end up having to think about it, like a true habit that is almost second nature, and that benefits me in other areas of my life that require more attention.

Timers and alarms help me pace myself throughout the day and give me chances to check in with myself. It takes time and a little bit of discipline, but in my experience the effort and time spent making small changes is worth it. Just keep in mind to be kind and patient with yourself as others have said as you figure out what works best for you.

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 4 points 1 month ago

Awesome thanks for posting

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I hate salt, and usually add it after I cook. If you're gonna add it maybe start gradually with a pinch or two if you really think it needs it, since you're getting a lot in the soy sauce

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

Taco "meat":

  • 1/2 cup textured vegetable protein granules (TVP)
  • 1/2 cup water
  • 2 tablespoons soy sauce
  • 1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil
  • 1/2 teaspoon ground cumin
  • 1/2 teaspoon ground coriander
  • Pinch garlic powder
  • Pinch onion powder

Make the taco "meat": Combine the TVP, 1/2 cup water, soy sauce, olive oil, cumin, coriander, garlic powder, and onion powder in a small saucepan and bring to a boil. Turn off the heat and let sit for 10 minutes.

Put it in tacos, on nachos, in burritos (breakfast or otherwise), on a salad, etc. I make my own taco seasoning from this recipe to really get a punch of flavor. That site has a ton of vegan recipes as well!

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

How bout a currant struggle session?

[–] un_mask_me@hexbear.net 2 points 1 month ago

link to her page

I originally searched for "sand-filled animals" on etsy if she doesn't have stuff you like, but the large frog she has looks pretty punchable-sized. There's quite a few items that people make specifically for stimming and comfort, too. Hope you find something that suits your needs!

 

It doesn't look great, more like squishy red slop but man does it taste good. I add vegan parmesan and fresh lime juice once it's on the plate. Recipe is from Love and Lemons

 

「僕なんかいなくても」

大切な花を踏みにじられた 報復が怖いから 目を逸らす いくじなしの僕は蟻の巣の中 じっと不幸が過ぎ去るのを待つ だんだんだんだん 心が濁る だんだんだんだん 心が濁る 僕には この世界を変えられないような気がしている

みんな あの子の陰口を言うけど こっそり 本の貸し借りをしてる 銃口向けられ 踏み絵を踏まされ 歯を食いしばり「ウザいね」と笑う だんだんだんだん 心が腐る だんだんだんだん 心が腐る 僕には この世界を変えられないような気がしている

零度の雨 期待の火が消える こんな奴じゃ 何も叶わないよ こんな奴じゃ 君に愛されないよ

うるせえ 弱虫でも生きていくんだよ 透明な僕にも 何か出来るだろ 世界は憎らしく 我関せず回る 僕なんかいなくても 止まない争いに シューティングスターを 優しい人に一縷の幸せを 無慈悲な悲喜劇は続く 僕なんかいなくても それでも やらなくちゃ それでも やらなくちゃ それでも

青春捧げて手にしたメダルを あの人に2、3秒で奪われ 星の数ほどいる主役の群れに 押し潰されて やがて貝になる だんだんだんだん 心が終わる だんだんだんだん 心が終わる 僕なんか いてもいなくても同じような気がしている

「夢」も「詐欺」も 同じ顔してる 信じる者は みんな救われるの 信じきれない僕は救われないの?

知らねえよ まだ心臓は動いてんだよ 敗戦続きの出来レース 何年目だろう 息絶えたその後も 陽は昇る 僕なんかいなくても それでも やらなくちゃ それでも 自分に嫌われても

だんだんだんだん 命が光る だんだんだんだん 命が光る 泥にまみれても 思い過ごしでも キラキラキラキラキラキラ光る 「悪い夢は終わる」 綺麗事にすがる すべて無意味だとしても

うるせえ 弱虫でも生きていくんだよ 透明な僕にも何か出来るだろ 世界は憎らしく 我関せず回る 僕なんかいなくても 止まない争いに シューティングスターを 優しい人には どうか めいっぱいの幸せを 叶わないと分かっていても この世界が終わっていても 僕なんかいなくても それでも やらなくちゃ それでも やらなくちゃ それでも 僕なんかいなくても それでも


With or Without Me

They trampled on my precious flower Afraid of retaliation, I turn my eyes away My timid self, hiding in an ant's nest Quietly waits for the misfortune to pass Gradually and gradually, my heart becomes dull Gradually and gradually, my heart becomes dull It feels like there's nothing I can do to change this world

Everyone talks about her behind her back But secretly we lend and borrow books They point a gun at my head and test my allegiance I grit my teeth and laugh, “She's so annoying” Gradually and gradually, my heart rots Gradually and gradually, my heart rots It feels like there's nothing I can do to change this world

Zero-degree rain, a fire of expectation extinguished If I'm like this, nothing will ever come true If I'm like this, I'll never be loved by you

Shut up, I'm gonna live even if I'm a wimp I'm invisible, but there's something I can do, right? The world spins hatefully and indifferently Even with or without me I wish for a shooting star to the endless fighting I wish for a ray of happiness to those who are kind This merciless tragicomedy continues Even with or without me - still I have to do something, still I have to do something, still

The medal I dedicated my youth to win Was taken away from me in two or three seconds Crushed by the crowd of countless heroes I eventually turn into a shellfish Gradually and gradually, my heart dies Gradually and gradually, my heart dies It feels like it doesn't matter whether I'm here or not

"Dreams" and "frauds" have the same face Those who believe will all be saved I, who can't believe, will not be saved?

Who cares, my heart's still beating How many years have I continued losing this fixed game? After I've died, the sun will yet rise Even with or without me - still I have to do something, still Even if I'm hated by myself

Gradually and gradually, life begins to shine Gradually and gradually, life begins to shine Even if I'm covered with mud, even if it's all in my head Twinkling and twinkling, life begins to shine “This nightmare will end”, I cling to a fantasy Even if it's all meaningless

Shut up, I'm gonna live even if I'm a wimp I'm invisible, but there's something I can do, right? The world spins hatefully and indifferently Even with or without me I wish for a shooting star to the endless fighting I wish, please, for all the happiness to those who are kind Even if I know it won't come true Even if the world has already ended Even with or without me - still I have to do something, still I have to do something, still Even with or without me - still

 

Disclaimer: I don't speak the language and copy/pasted the lyrics from a 3rd party so they may be inaccurate.

You just activated ma trap card Activated ma trap card Activated ma trap card Ian purpp he can hit the bass hard 나는 터트려 잭팟 목에 걸래 금메달 말아 손에 쥔 paper Go lIght up, light up A burning, A warning 너의 머릿속 보여 헛짓거리들과 거짓 속임수 개소리 개소리 어리버리 버려 먼지 떨이 벌이 잿더미로 꺼져 떨어

넌 걸렸어 이 함정에 나 지금 걸었어 한 장의 카드 긁어 신용한도 여긴 언제 터질지 모르는 한반도 과부하 지쳤어 내 가사에 담아낸 말들은 나비효과 그딴 거 하나도 없지 좆까 무슨 주의 주의 나는 갈래 도망 제발 집어치워 니 좆같은 개똥철학 남의 것 훔쳐서 도벽만 신경 썼대 근데 병맛 쓸데없는 말은 말어 난 미리 갈어 몸은 사려 느린 시간 봤어 달력 잠깐 정지 랩을 달려 도대체 니가 뭐를 알어 이런 씨발놈아 니가 도대체 뭘 알어 결국 거지같이 벌이 좆도 없이 살아 너도 나도 네모 창밖에선 다 똑같잖아 난 갈 길이 멀어 차비는 없어, 자비도 없어 말은 다 버려, 멀리 더 날어 의미는 필요없어

You just activated ma trap card Activated ma trap card Activated ma trap card Ian purpp he can hit the bass hard 나는 터트려 잭팟 목에 걸래 금메달 말아 손에 쥔 paper Go lIght up, light up A burning, A warning 너의 머릿속 보여 헛짓거리들과 거짓 속임수 개소리 개소리 어리버리 버려 먼지 떨이 벌이 잿더미로 꺼져 떨어

 

I broke down today in a public setting when someone deliberately attempted to annoy me because they enjoy my reactions when I get upset. My question is, how to deal with such things? Any hexbears who regularly deal with this or have suggestions on how to handle such situations? Am I just fucked with dealing with assholes?

Content Warning: self-harmSo, I get sensory overload pretty easily with seemingly small auditory cues, such as whistling, intermittent humming, low frequency vibrations (like from old AC units or fluorescent light bulbs). Someone I am forced to interact with on a daily basis decided they wanted to make me squirm today by whistling off-key repeatedly, loudly, and very near to where I was working. When I asked them to stop they continued to do it, kind of like a sibling who is bored and wanting to get some entertainment by driving the other party crazy. After 20 minutes of it I was getting to the point of distress, and I asked them to please stop because it was making me uncomfortable, and their response was to try and do it more loudly. I finally went to them and talked to them directly, face to face, and all but begged them to stop because it was making me uncomfortable and it was getting disrespectful, near tears at that point, and they rolled their eyes and said "Sorry you got triggered". The reality was that I was to the point of starting to scratch myself with my nails to distract myself because I was so distraught from the noise, something that I've come to understand happens when I'm starting to dissociate. I'm ashamed to say I dug my nails in enough to draw blood and leave marks, something I haven't done in a long while. Ended up leaking a few tears, which is really embarrassing and shameful for me when I'm not alone...


I have to work with this person every day, and I can't wear headphones/ play music/ do things to block them out like I normally would. I just got this job but I'm already to the point where my mental health is being trashed after just a few weeks. Am I SOL? Anyone have anything that could help with this, even if it's suggestions on dealing with over stimulation in a work setting as someone with autism? I keep my ND a secret; no one knows I'm on the spectrum. ...am I overreacting? niko-tear-wipe

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