I dont wear my playcollar in public, its leather with tiny spikes and would be too obvious for me.
But i do have a collection of collarlike necklaces, who go pretty with my day-to-day outfits and are way more subtle. I dont wear them all the time just when im in need of some extra support.
I would like to have an eternity collar or something like that with some sparkly shiny little stones.
I really do, it makes me feel like he is close.