SmuttyLad

Nope, neither solicited nor unsolicited.

I use a locally hosted SillyTavern frontend with an API (OpenRouter with paid credits), both for nsfw as well as the sfw applications I'd rather not use the chatGPT frontend for.

For nsfw purposes I mostly tend to use it as a collaborative writer for my personal lewd fiction with text only. Actually tends to be rather slow burn with plenty of buildup, but you can probably do whatever you like.

Whilst there are free llm models, the paid ones are certainly better. Even the ones available open source can be so heavy that it ends up being cheaper to pay per usage rather than buy the hardware and pay for electricity.

My full costs for AI sit at <10€/year. My goto fiction (both lewd and sfw) llm is LumiMaid.

Obviously a bit of work to set this up for yourself rather than ready to use online options (and text-only) but better for privacy and probably also the wallet.

Audio!

Preferably the lovey-dovey stuff

Personally I'm partial to Big spoon. Holding her close, smelling her hair, oh and the ability to cause all kinds of mischief.

yum yum

Do you do anything for your own pleasure outside of work and if so, what?

Love to make her feel good - moaning probably means it's working ;)

For myself - probably the sides of my neck. It's not sexually loaded in the same way as other areas, but basically only romantic partners get to touch there.

Also quite sensitive for me, an unexpected brush there will instantly put goosebumps on the corresponding arm and be quite discomforting. Loving attention however.... <3

If I had to pick, I prefer submissive over dominant.

However, what I really want is an equal, a partner who knows what she wants and expresses that. Speak and I shall provide, less demanding want, more needing want - seeing, hearing, feeling her pleasure is like music to my soul. Loving, fulfilling and completing one another. Someone to take on the world with.

Corny as hell maybe, but a man can dream <3

Either use gwasi.com (only gets you the stuff posted to gone wild audio on reddit unfortunately) or filter by site in a search engine as the other reply suggested.

Would recommend creating a new community for the purposes you mentioned - that way you can decide the rules (just keep the basic instance wide ones in mind)