RymrgandsDaughter

joined 3 months ago

I think that while I understand that logically as that's how I mentally can separate them from vegetarians... I don't actually get it.

[–] RymrgandsDaughter@lemmy.blahaj.zone -1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I don't give a damn about vegans. And in a society of excess fail to understand how veganism (?) has a meaningful interaction with LGBT+ community besides there being a number of people who are both. I don't even consider it to be political but I'm sure groups like that have lobbyists for something.

I definitely don't see them as progressive and I wouldn't look to a group of vegans to help defend my rights unless they were lgbtq+ specifically. Maybe that's a perspective thing because I don't care about what vegans are doing at all. To me, they're just deciding their diet.

I had priorities and did research. I had rules I decided from the beginning. It took months to decide I even changed my mind a on somethings at the last minute

  1. Initials I needed something to match my initials. That only changed slightly when I decided to make sure I didn't have my sperm donors last name.

  2. I needed my name to come from a similar part of the globe historically. I think nowadays I'd have done the same thing for different reasons. When I first made this rule I'd done it to respect my sperm donor despite everything. Then later on I kept it because I had already decided on this and it filtered out thousands of names. If I had to name myself today, this rule would mean that my name comes from the same area as my siblings, which honestly means it doesn't stand out.

  3. I needed the meaning of my name to matter. And I wanted something I'd always agree with. Personally I feel like I fucked up here. At the time I was extremely angry at my father and part of my name reflects that. Nowadays I wish I had picked something that embodied myself and wasn't just an insult towards someone else. I don't hate it but I feel like if I had gotten a second opinion I'd have gone with my other choice for a middle name.

  4. It needed you sound a certain way, I needed saying first into middle to sound good. Not hard when they're from the same region but that's not always the case.

I think with this I only struggled to choose between 4-5 names and was going to put the number 2 or 3 pick as a middle name it worked out well for me. I think if I hadn't gotten pissed off during the time before I legally changed my name I'd definitely have a different middle name though.

so some rich ass hole

[–] RymrgandsDaughter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

no I meant petrol sniff king. it's a name that provokes thought

[–] RymrgandsDaughter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

only if you wear gloves

I don't believe in polls but I honestly feel like it's more than half irl

[–] RymrgandsDaughter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

that's a whole lot of name

yeah well I plan to double it and pass it on 😤

Hopefully she doesn't get back up

If he hadn't rented it they might consider calling it that but that's a normal "oops the books gone" fine.

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