Flickerby

joined 2 years ago
[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 9 points 1 day ago

Appreciate your valuable contribution

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

....I WOULD fit in with my beard. I dig it.

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 1 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Sounds like you're angling for me to have a million things to say to you

 

It's like it hits "normal people are sleeping" time and I suddenly have a million things to say to them.

To be clear, this is not "I'm going to wake you up with inane ramblings" it's "why do I feel like rambling inanely when I shouldn't" for people who like to skim.

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 3 points 2 weeks ago

The same thing we do every day Pinky

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 2 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

The Connect app is based off RiF. Best Lemmy app by far

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 5 points 4 weeks ago

You make a good point I hadn't taken the time to think about before. There's not really too many heroes like that. Everyone deserves their chance to see themselves as the hero

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 31 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

Agreed but it's not impossible. My girl is waaaaaaay out of my league and a traditional "popular" type of woman.

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 10 points 4 weeks ago

My parents would say this to jole then ask what my preferred name is. It all depends on your type of relationship and what was cut off.

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 9 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

"Villains can't be queer or it's bigotry" is the worst take. Gimme badass queer villains. Human stories are human stories.

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 6 points 4 weeks ago

93 yes. 96 no. Rounding

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 10 points 4 weeks ago

I can dislocate my joints at will. Thing with Ehlers-Danlos but it's a nice party trick

[–] Flickerby@lemm.ee 25 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

Everyone likes their own things in people.

 

My fiance has been struggling a lot lately with this and it's taking a toll on me. I'm doing all I can and all I know how to do but it's getting really hard and exhausting to deal with the constant cycle of abuse and then apology and then abuse and then apology over and over and over again for months. Usually day by day. I have convinced her to go to a counselor for help and she has an appointment set and seemed willing but she has kept up the cycle of drinking and I'm afraid she'll just ignore it or pretend to go. If anyone has experience helping a loved one through overcome this I would appreciate the help. She is an absolutely wonderful person when she is sober and I love her with all my heart but I'm not sure what else I can do and I don't want the rest of my life to consist of this.

 
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