... and now you're making wild assumptions just to discredit my point of view instead of making any actual counterargument.
I guess even if you were right (and you aren't) I'll never learn. Not with people like you around who refuse to explain their side of the debate.
A clearer way to phrase it might be "there are no rules for the genre of fantasy". An individual world needs self-contained rules, yes, but just because Tolkien's Dwarves have beards regardless of gender doesn't mean that your Dwarves need to be the same.