Azzu

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[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 hour ago

This is not bargaining... It's simply proving he isn't a dictator

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 1 points 1 hour ago

I'm just going to add my voice.

You likely have been very much programmed to think of this one true love bullshit. It's romantic feel-good stuff that sells books and TV shows and other media, but it's not the reality. It's a fantasy.

You are this, and even more, compatible with a plethora of people. There are a lot of people you could love like you loved this person.

The only thing stopping you from feeling this again is yourself. If you want to believe that there is no one as amazing as your old flame out there, then that is how it is. Your belief in this makes it true. Because as long as you believe this, you will eternally focus on all the ways the new person is not the same as the guy you loved, instead of appreciating the new person for the different features they have.

As soon as you stop believing that guy is the best ever and no one can ever compare, that is when you will find someone new who you think is as amazing. Not a single moment before, you simply couldn't even recognize it.

In the meantime... Another thing everyone has said is that it is actually possible to be completely content by yourself. You don't actually need any romantic partner to be happy. It's the same as above: as long as you believe that you'll never be happy if you don't find someone as amazing as that guy, then that's how it will be, you will be unhappy. But as soon as you believe that you can be happy by yourself, that's when you will actually be happy alone. It is actually that simple. I'm sure there are things you love to do that don't involve a romantic partner. You can do these indefinitely and stay happy. As long as you believe that you can.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 4 points 23 hours ago

You do? I love you too!

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 4 points 3 days ago

Yep, it's incredible.

I also think it's exactly the right thing, dota is essentially constantly becoming a new game. It's the only thing that can really keep a game alive so long.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 26 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Why should anything be crashing at this point? Everyone is still working, right? Value is still being extracted from workers, right? People are still buying things, aren't they?

The stock market will only start crashing once the effects actually reach people's spending/working behavior, which it didn't yet.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Nah, you're on a good path. If you continue to work on yourself, accept your shortcomings, you really can't do anything wrong. Only staying still would be a problem. The fact that you ask here is already proof of the opposite.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I'm glad :) I hope you can get to a better place with your depression. I've been through it, I know how much it sucks. If you need more advice/explanations/help, don't hesitate to ask.

Many people in here treated you very unfairly, because you did sound very much like you're saying "I'm incredibly amazing and can do nothing wrong", and some people assume that such a person could never do something different and they absolutely hate that.

A healthy confidence is incredibly important, but so is knowing that you're not perfect either. I'm very proud that it seems like you can do both :)

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 5 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

The question is what you mean with "too much self-awareness", which you haven't said. I strongly assume that what you're talking about isn't self-awareness at all, but self-worth issues.

Because just knowing yourself... is simply never a bad thing. If it is, then it isn't the thing you're talking about.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 6 points 4 days ago

As others have said, flirting is a "natural", risk-free way to show sexual interest in someone.

I'm autistic and basically can't do it. So I just go up to people I find attractive, and say "hey I think you're cute, I'd like to get to know you better, would you also like that?" or some variation of this. Most of the time it doesn't work, but quite evidently by what is lying next to me, it works sometimes.

Being yourself is not about not doing the things that are required to reach your goals. You still need to do them, i.e. express sexual interest. What is meant is that you need to figure out a way to do the things that are necessary to reach your goal in a way that you can actually learn to do.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 4 points 4 days ago

Thank god, the game was literally unplayable.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

New things. I simply can't stay with anything. Makes it basically impossible to have any decent job, because people want and expect you to be an expert at what you do.

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 6 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

You are being irrational about this.

You're absolutely correct that it is bad practice, however, 98% of people already follow bad practice out of convenience. All the points you mentioned against "DoWnlOADing a BinAary" are true, but it's simply what people do and already don't care about.

You can offer only your way of installing and people will complain about the inconvenience of it. Especially if there's another similar project that does offer the more convenient way.

The only thing you can rationally recommend is to not make the install script the "recommended" way, and recommend they download the binaries from the source code page and verify checksums. But most people won't care and use the install script anyway.

If the install script were "bloody pointless", it would not exist. Most people don't know their architecture, the script selects it for them. Most people don't know what "adding to path" means, this script does it for them. Most people don't know how to install shell completions, this script does it for them.

You massively overestimate the average competence of software developers and how much they care. Now, a project can try to educate them and lose potential users, or a project can follow user behavior. It's not entirely wrong to follow user behavior and offer the better alternatives to competent people, which this project does. It explains that it's possible and how to download the release from the Github page.

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Gameplay Update 7.38 (www.dota2.com)
submitted 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) by Azzu@lemm.ee to c/dota2@lemmy.ml
 

Direct link to patch notes: https://www.dota2.com/patches/7.38

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Terrible vegetable (images.azzurite.tv)
 
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He's so cute (images.azzurite.tv)
 
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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by Azzu@lemm.ee to c/linux@lemmy.ml
 

Or any other log files/output? I'm open to any solution, but what I would like...

...is something where I can just click on a word or select some text and say "filter that out"

Something that colors different log levels differently, preferably automatically.

Something that can parse the "columns" and give me a nice quick list of values, like different unit names to filter out/solely include.

Something that lets me choose a time and go there. Something that lets me select only a specific timeframe of logs.

I know this can probably be done by going in/out of journalctl, recalling the last command and adding specific filter options... but it just feels slow. It's so many keypresses when I could just right click on the word and -> "Filter out/Search for" or something.

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New Hero - Kez (www.dota2.com)
submitted 3 months ago by Azzu@lemm.ee to c/dota2@lemmy.ml
 

I don't really have the will or the time to read through long Wikipedia pages or even reading books or similar, which would obviously be a much better, more reliable, more neutral, but also more dry, choice to gain a good understanding of Anarchism.

I have some basic, specific questions that would probably be answered by doing the above, but since I'm not willing to do that (I know, I know), would it be fine for me to ask them in this community?

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Gameplay Update 7.37c (www.dota2.com)
submitted 5 months ago by Azzu@lemm.ee to c/dota2@lemmy.ml
 

Right now I'm stuck in a boot issue on Elementary OS and I have no access to any installation medium :(

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