Acamon

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[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

Yes, I guess I take the different perspective with that. I'm fine sticking with my own arbitary rule for what is coffee, and judging people (in a very mild and irrelevant way) for not liking "real" coffee. But I'm also totally fine with someone judging me for doing it wrong. Or putting cream in my carbonara or whatever. I don't think people judging each other and having arbitary standards is a bad thing, and I'm aldoy happy for people to disagree with that belief.

A cappachino is coffee and frothed milk, a mocha is coffee and chocolate and milk, etc. If you make something by mixing A + B + C then the result can't be C. Personally I like just coffee on its own, but I'm happy to make others sweet and milky coffee drinks if they desire them. They smell nice and look pretty!

Defintely agree about the beans.

[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Totally. I didn't mean to suggest that someone's fundemental sexual orientation would change. I can see why that would be worrying. I was meaning a much more mundane fluidity and fluctuations on what I find attractive and how I express myself sexually (which I thought was pretty normal, but I can only speak for myself!) There have been times when I've been more attracted to wild types, and other times when I'm strongly attracted to safe and nurturing people. I've always been generally attracted to guys & gals (& nb pals), but how equal my preferences are changes back and forth. And even at an individual level, I can think of someone entirely nonsexually for years, then one day see them in a fancy jacket or whatever, and suddenly I'm totally attracted to them.

Defintely not arguing for conversion therapy! Just curious thinking about the different influences on the experience of attraction.

[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

That's super interesting! There's so many ways the attraction (sexual and otherwise) can shift and change. Hormone treatment must be such an interesting (among many other adjectives I'm sure!) experience. I've come to terms with my attraction to people changing, and linked that to different attitudes and moods, but I hadn't really thought about the basic hormonal forces that might make us express our sexuality differently, even though that's a pretty obvious big part of things! Thanks for sharing!!

[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

Super interesting! Thanks !

[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 10 points 13 hours ago (5 children)

I'm totally down with anyone calling themselves bi (because deep down everyone is bi...) but I'm curious what that little corner of same-sex attraction is for you? You say that you like getting compliments, and sharing interests with a girl. How is that different, for you, from having a close friendship?

Totally not trying to say you're not bi - "I'm a little bit bi, but massively prefer men" is much more honest and believable to me than "I'm 110% straight, I can't even imagine...". But since you've posted I guess you want to talk about it? And while I love bi-stuff and homoerotic relationships, sometimes people ARE just good friends, roommates, bffs, etc. Plutonic relationships can be intimate and strong too!

[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago

That does should plausible, some version of reward/threaten/drain. Thanks ! Even if it isn't what was intended, I can believe it meant that and thus makes some sort of sense.

[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 1 points 15 hours ago

That's quite an image!

[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 0 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Sure, it's gatekeeping coffee - the reason we build walls with gates is to keep the barbarians out! I wasn't trying to 'gatekeep caffeine' in the slightest, those concotions are defintely cafffinated hot drinks. And of course, by some standard they're 'coffee' and so is tiramsu.

Apple jacks pop tarts are made from apples (apple powder, but apples nothertheless), and while it might be a small fraction of the total, the point where it stops being fruit and becomes a snack is an arbitary line. I assume you consider a drink made with instant coffee powder still coffee?

Obviously, it's a silly semantic debate, and someone could equally judge me for wanting my coffee beans roasted and ground "why not eat the berries fresh if you say you love coffeeโ€ฝ".

[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

That sounds super interesting! I'd love to hear more about middle earth magic as law, if you can be bothered saying more (or if you know of any articles or videos) about it. I assume by legal standing you mean how gandalf's authority (once returned as 'the white') is what grants him power over saruman, and such. Is that right? What do you mean by precedent?

[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Been doing a lot of work on our house, and finally got a couple of air purifiers. Wish I'd done it sooner! For the first few days of running it I had to vaccuum out the filters daily because they were visibly coated in small wood fibre filaments and other dust, but now they are running regularly and the air quality is so much better, and the blocked noses and sneezing so much less.

[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Possibly, the general style of those "product history" pieces is pretty grounded. It's not formal academic history, but it tries for a historical reporting vibe that makes me doubt theyd just throw in a nonsense phrase or in-joke.

But if no one can explain it, then it's certainly a possible explanation, although if it really is meaningless I'd lean towards typo.

[โ€“] Acamon@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago

Good luck! Keep us updated!

 

I came across this cryptic phrase in a description of an old D&D adventure Tale of the Comet . In context, it seems to describe the designer solving a problem of game balance by having the powerful technology items have limited charges / uses before expiring. But I cannot parse prophet-squeeze-monster and I certianly don't recognise it as a classic trope. Any ideas?

 

Is there any options for better bluetooth management than stock android (I'm on 14 currently, on a Motorola)? Android does a reasonable attempt at autoconnecting, showing me the last couple of devices and so on - but there's not a lot customisation or control.

I would like to be able to toggle easily whether devices autoconnect, I'd like to me able to have a list of 5 or 6 devices that I regularly connect to, rather than just the last three I've used. I'd like to be able to set priority for which device gets the audio out. Stuff like that!

Many androids ago there were apps that improved bluetooth management, but now they don't seem to exist. Or, at least all the ones I found in the app store seemed scammy af.

Any suggestions? Do I need to root? Or finally learn Tasker?

 

I've been looking for a zigbee temperature sensor that has a long (1-2m) probe. I can find general room temperature zigbee sensors, and WiFi devices with probes, but not what I'm looking for. Searching online just comes up with people saying I'd need to make make soemthing myself with esphome.

I'm not opposed to getting into esp at some point when I've got some free time, but I'd like something quick and easy I could just buy and have working easily. Anyone know of anything suitable?

 

Back in the early days of the internet, there were a bunch of webcams anyone could view - sometimes a street, sometimes the coffee machine of a lab, and, occasionally, someone's bedroom or appartment. Although they were much talked about, I'm sure it was a tiny number of people, and probably not for very long. And because of crappy bandwidth, most of these cams were more like constantly updating image, rather than actual video. Tbh, maybe it's not even a real thing, but I definitely remember it being spoken about.

Nowadays obviously things are great for people who want strangers to know what they're up to, they've got countless media to choose from. And 'watching a stranger do mundane things' was packaged up and sold as reality TV a long time ago.

But I guess my question is, are there people still live-streaming their life - without it being a sex thing (like onlyfans) or advertising / shilling front (so, ruling out most 'influencers'). Are their folks out there just running a 24h twitch channel where people can watch them fold their laundry or doomscroll the night away on a poorly illuminated couch?

 

I've been looking for an app that will let me write down a bunch of short ideas/phrases and move them around easily. Something like scribbling on postits and sorting into piles, ordering and rearranging them.

So far I've found lots of task list / to do type apps that I can make lists and move things about in one axis. Or mind map type apps for building specific webs. But I've not come across something quick and easy to freeform engage with my brainstorming. Any suggestions?

 

The current news has me thinking that, while the death of any human is not something I actively relish, most people feel a certain satisfaction, relief or, at least, less sad when someone like Osama Bin Laden dies, because they were responsible for the deaths of thousands of innocent people.

Which got me wondering, have studies been done estimating how many legitimate insurance cases are rejected, delayed or otherwise mishandled, and how many of those result in deaths? I guess other industries are also responsible for some pretty measurable risk factors (e.g. air pollution). It would interesting to see some rough numbers of how many deaths the CEOs who choose to continue running these companies in harmful ways account for. Obviously, they are only indirectly responsible, but the same could be said about Bin Laden, he didn't fly the planes himself, he delegated.

 

I've seen reports and studies that show products advertised as including / involving AI are off-putting to consumers. And this matches what almost every person I hear irl or online says. Regardless of whether they think that in the long-term AI will be useful, problematic or apocalyptic, nobody is impressed Spotify offering a "AI DJ" or "AI coffee machines".

I understand that AI tech companies might want to promote their own AI products if they think there's a market for them. And they might even try to create a market by hyping the possibilities of "AI". But rebranding your existing service or algorithms as being AI seems like super dumb move, obviously stupid for tech literate people and off-putting / scary for others. Have they just completely misjudged the world's enthusiasm for this buzzword? Or is there some other reason?

 

I feel like I'm encountering weird little tics and problems with my android devices, and those of family and friends. Just simple things where settings don't seem to be consistently applied, or the os switches something back repeatedly. For example, my apps are set to auto update, to use data as well as WiFi, etc, but every month or so I go into Play and see that some random app hasn't been updated in weeks.

Or my friend only gets Signal notifications when they open the app, despite giving full background data use, turning off adaptive battery, etc. My mother uses an alarm app that needs to display over the screen for a feature, but despite me setting that permission repeatedly Android keeps turning it off.

Is this just anecdotal bad luck? Or is all the work to preserve battery life, control background usage, etc led to an OS where the user can't control things reliably? It starting to feel a lot like MS Windows!

 

(I've got a pixel watch 2 and moto edge 40 neo, and some jlab earbuds.)

I usually listen to music on my phone, but recently linked my earbuds to my watch, and the same music played on Spotify sounds massively better on the same earbuds when played via the watch.

I assumed it was because I had installed the jlab app, and it was doing a bad job of meddling with the eq. But after uninstalling it there wasn't a noticeable difference. Is there some other setting I can adjust? Any thoughts on whether it's something my moto is doing wrong or something my pixel watch is doing right?

Its a substantial difference (although I'm not enough of an audiophile to describe it) enough that I'm now mostly playing music via my watch. But it's hitting the battery hard, so I'd rather go back to using my phone!

 

This is maybe a weird request, but I'm looking for a way to send myself some information at a specific time in the future. Basically, it's because I've got a few sites that are huge distractions for me at the moment, and I can't stop checking my accounts, responding to messages, etc. My willpower is so low, and I've got a lot of important work right now and it's starting to really mess up my life.

So my plan is to change the passwords to my accounts to a long random string, then save that string somewhere that I can't access for X days. I imagined a simple way would be to use a site that would send me an email on a date, and the content of that email would be my random passwords. But my web searches only seem to find pages telling me how to schedule my own emails, which isn't what I need.

Any advice / suggestions?

(also, in case anyone is thinking it, the sites I'm trying to block access to are all linked to the same email account, and I'm also going to change its password, so I won't easily be able to reset them).

Edit: FutureMe is exactly the site I was thinking of, thanks lemmings!

 

I hear people saying things like "chatgpt is basically just a fancy predictive text". I'm certainly not in the "it's sentient!" camp, but it seems pretty obvious that a lot more is going on than just predicting the most likely next word.

Even if it's predicting word by word within a bunch of constraints & structures inferred from the question / prompt, then that's pretty interesting. Tbh, I'm more impressed by chatgpt's ability to appearing to "understand" my prompts than I am by the quality of the output. Even though it's writing is generally a mix of bland, obvious and inaccurate, it mostly does provide a plausible response to whatever I've asked / said.

Anyone feel like providing an ELI5 explanation of how it works? Or any good links to articles / videos?

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