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[–] mrarcher_@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] alehc@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago
[–] dxcz@beehaw.org 3 points 2 years ago

I lurked because everything I had to say had already been said, or so it seemed.

Seems like, with less users, that's less likely to happen. Been nice.

[–] CaptainAlchemy@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah as a lurker on Reddit (I use libreddit) I really wanna see some change for the better, Fediverses' seem to be the future, we just need to get the general masses aware of its presence :)

[–] CheshireSnake@lemmy.one 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

My concern is lemmy in general is too complicated a concept for the average user just wanting to browse. I've already encountered 2 users on reddit recently who might have stopped because of this complexity. One said he/she felt like lemmy makes its users answer queries before being able to join a sub, and one just couldn't get why there has to be different instances and was turned off because he/she couldn't quite understand how it all works.

I'm not sure I understand everything completely myself, but I'm willing to try. I don't think a lot of people do, tbh.

Edit: I'm aware why lenny is like this (generally) and I am definitely not criticizing it. Just mentioning some points as to why it may be hard for other people to follow us here.

[–] DudePluto@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Lemmy will have to learn to hide the sausage-maker if they want laymen to enjoy their sausage. That is to say they'll have to make a way for the everyman to interact without the barrier to entry.

Though, no one says Lemmy has to become a AAA social media site

[–] Barbarian@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Completely agree. I'll be ecstatic if Lemmy hits the point where it's self-sustaining. It doesn't need to attract millions, but it needs enough active engaged users to post and comment so that there's enough interesting shit here

[–] sina@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Honestly Lemmy is much better than I thought it would be. My main problem is the lack of some niche communities that are on Reddit. For example as a GW2 player I get all my news about game updates & store discounts etc from the GW2 subreddit, but I don't see Lemmy taking that over anytime soon, if ever. Maybe I'll need to use a Reddit scraper for that, if I want to completely abandon the platform.

What I dislike about Reddit is the system of incentivizing karma farming. This leads to unhealthy posting behaviors that always bugged me. So far to me it seems Lemmy does not have that, so it's a huge win.

[–] codebam@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] SpiderShoeCult@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 years ago

hail from another lurker

[–] Sewot@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago

It ain't much, but it's honest work!

[–] psysok@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

I have been trying to comment instead of just lurking. Its against my natural tendencies, but I want to see this place live, so I thought I would be the change I want to see in the world.

[–] tonyMEGAphone@lemmy.one 1 points 2 years ago

And back to the shadows...

[–] Disgusted_Tadpole@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Man, to me all of this smells the internet from the 2000s and I can’t tell how excited I am

[–] alphapro784@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Oh bring the good ol' sweaty LAN parties.

[–] Voyajer@kbin.social 0 points 2 years ago (3 children)

It's easier not to lurk when the odds of getting a strangely hostile reply over nothing important goes down

[–] HotsauceHurricane@lemmy.one 1 points 2 years ago

I DISAGREE!

[–] phox@syrma.cc 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Agreed. I always felt like I had to add five different disclaimers to my comments to avoid bad faith arguments and angry responses. Wasn’t a fun experience at all and often lead to me just deleting comments.

[–] ANapSoundsNice@beehaw.org 1 points 2 years ago

I may have been a little... overzealous when I wrote my beehaw application but I echo this point when I submitted

My last comment on reddit was 6 years ago. I was afraid of what it and the internet at large was becoming. Afraid to be a human online because the trolls and the dox and the swats. The mission statements in the side bar, the long and insightful posts that hope to bridge new people to the culture of beehaw that speak of being nice and compassionate, of working together to build a community of varied interests and peoples let me dare to dream that there exists a place where I can be a human on the internet again.

It's going to take a lot of deconditioning to not be a lurker!

[–] thepiguy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I'm commenting to boost engagement!

[–] KrimsonBun@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago
[–] Brunbrun6766@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

I'm doing my part!

[–] cstaaben@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] HerrBert@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago

It's honest work!

[–] Skotic@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

"Service guarantees citizenship!"

[–] AFallingAnvil@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 years ago

I would like to know more!

[–] XLRV@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Same, I will not lurk this time, and hopefully later too. 🙌

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