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Which posts and comments do you either up- or downvote? Which are you not voting on?

Upvote:

  • insightful post or comment I agree with
  • clever jokes or references
  • being open-minded
  • giving helpful advice
  • any post or comment that made me laugh or simile, whether or not it is "good"

  • good gut feeling about someones intention

No-vote:

  • insightful post or comment I disagree with
  • overused jokes
  • useful bots

  • someone angry venting their frustration(s)
  • comments that already exist multiple times in a thread

Downvote:

  • deliberately looking for a "fight" or rage baiting
  • complete disregard to reality
  • false and/or potentially dangerous information
  • spamming bots and/or trolls
  • inciting violence, no matter against whom (people seem to forget this is a straight up crime, sometimes a felony)

  • propaganda and political or religious extremism
  • know all, better than everyone attitude
  • highly questionable anime content (especially sexualizing characters that look like children)
  • obvious, malicious manipulation
  • AI generated content ( mentioned first by cloudless@piefed.social )

I am really interested in your vote behavior and may also update my list as more things come to mind. These will be listed under a horizontal line.

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[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago

I typically upvote anything I want to see more of. I down vote posts that I really don't want to see or really wrong info. And no vote if I'm not sure of something or don't care. Most of the time it's no vote.

In smaller communities it helps a tiny bit as an votes are what people see.

I can't down vote or see them in my instance which is really nice imo. But usually if I like it, I upvote it. Relatable, funny interesting.

[–] venusaur@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I rarely ever downvote. Everybody’s opinion is valid. Downvoting is petty.

[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It all depends on the person:

Posts or comments from women: downvote about every second one, randomly.

Posts or comments from black people: downvote every single one, thoroughly, with extra pressure on the button.

Posts or comments from stupid people: sometimes downvote, sometimes upvote, according to my mood swings. Sometimes create an additional lemmy account in order to have a second downvote.

/s

[–] nebulaone@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

~~I see the point you are making, or I am interpreting too much into it, but I don't think discussion about subjective, highly variable day-to-day things is useless. Sure, every human is influenced by a lot of factors, but in my opinion there is still something to learn from this. I know I did in less than an hour already.~~

I am an idiot.

[–] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I see the point you are making,

Just when I tried so hard not to make one...

[–] nebulaone@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Ja scheiße, mein Fehler. Ich bin halt fest davon ausgegangen, dass das Satire war, weil es sich genau so gelesen hat.

[–] kbal@fedia.io 2 points 1 day ago

I have only one strict rule: I see the Moomin comic, I upvote it.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

Upvote:

  • comment was helpful, insightful, humorous, or provoked good conversation
  • reply to me that I agree with, appreciate, or disagrees with me in a respectful or thought-provoking way

Downvote:

  • unprovoked user demonstrates a hostile, combative attitude
  • comment unrelated to topic/thread

Block:

  • I recognize user based on downvote behavior in multiple threads or user is particularly egregious in particular: bigotry, demagoguery, sea-lioning, or other deliberate offensiveness.
[–] junkthief@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 day ago

My account is on an instance that doesn’t implement downvotes, which I wasn’t sure about at first, but have grown to like. For me, it’s either worth an upvote, worth commenting on, or I just move on. It has changed how I engage with Lemmy a bit.

Sadly if I don't vote, my app doesn't consider it read. So I upvote nearly everything.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 1 points 1 day ago

Im lazy so something has to strike me as particularly good or bad to upvote or downvote. On the bad side im usually looking at the users past comments at that point to see if I should block them. I think in kbin I could subscribe to people and a good one might make me do that figuring it means feeds they were active in would get bumped up. I don't see that option in piefed though.

[–] truite@jlai.lu 1 points 1 day ago

I don't downvote, I dislike this feature. In theory I upvote when it's funny or interesting, but I don't often think to do it. I try to upvote posts in little communities to say "hey someone saw your post and enjoyed it, please continue to share things!" even if I don't comment.

[–] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 day ago

Upvote: Good comments, or stupid comments that are funny (which are basically good posts anyway)

Downvote: Image posts with words censored, dumb mean jerks, comments that feel like spam

[–] 3aqn5k6ryk@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

I forgot to upvote most of the time. but when i do, it's usually something that made me chuckle or laugh.

Downvote, everything that has AI nonsense, musk, trump, big tech and the lot of them.

[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 1 points 1 day ago

Neglectful / high threshold. A post or comment has to be extremely one way or the other for me to click one of those arrows, and as for boosts, basically forget about it, even if they are the right thing for stellar content. I would like to give out more (of all kinds), but never seem to be able to bring myself to do it.

I think seeing a ratio that already looks right might play into it a bit (since I'm on an instance that shows both up and down), but there are plenty of 0/0s that don't get anything from me either.

Getting into the further "why" is deep existential, psychological stuff that's probably well beyond the fluff level of an internet points discussion, and I might not even be able to begin to examine that without the help of a qualified therapist or something.

[–] macaw_dean_settle@lemmy.world -3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Incorrect spelling of words. *behavior, not behavi our. You are pronouncing the word correctly but spelling it wrong. 'Our' is not the same word as 'or.'

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