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Edit: What do you judge them for?

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[–] Pudutr0n@feddit.cl 10 points 1 week ago

If they have a good opinion of me I know they're a poor judge of character.

[–] Hermit_Lailoken@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

Intentionally sagging pants.

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago

Someone normal looking wearing clothing that references a nerdy hobby/interest: this person is self-confident enough to not be afraid to admit to having a nerdy side.

If someone seems extremely socially awkward and is wearing that kind of clothing it's different. But if it's someone who looks like a soccer mom but she's wearing a Critical Role tee shirt, she's cool. Or if it's a guy who looks like a construction worker with an Anime character: nice one, dude.

[–] FerretyFever0@fedia.io 9 points 1 week ago

There's a LOT of things. Those are mostly shallow and me being a bad person though. I really judge people when they have super Christian clothing with tiny pieces of random supposedly important Bible verses. Those "don't tread on me" stickers. Really tacky shit in general. I wear a really obnoxious Goku/Vegeta hoodie sometimes, to make sure that the shallowest people will avoid me. I'm a hypocrite lol

[–] FanciestPants@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A fedora with safari flaps in the back.

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[–] meyotch@slrpnk.net 8 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Any kind of of bumper sticker collection on the trunk(boot) lid.

One sticker with a snarky or clever saying is fine, but I do instantly judge anyone with a collage as a tacky person with poor taste and no sense of boundaries.

It matters not if I tend to agree with the advertised messages, it’s just a huge red flag to me.

[–] elephantium@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

I also think a collage of bumper stickers looks tacky. I wouldn't condemn it in such strong terms as you used, however.

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[–] 0x01@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A cross necklace

One who wants others to think they believe


A vest over a button up

One who aspires and has not yet achieved


An oversized suit and padded heel shoes

One who is orange

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[–] MTK@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Hats. Fucking hat people think they are better than me just because they cover their head?!

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[–] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

College students with sports cars: I assume they’ll be in debt forever.

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[–] henfredemars@infosec.pub 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A classic Casio wristwatch.

Gentlemen, terrorist, or the best engineer you’ve ever met.

[–] spookex@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Well, I'm not the first, not third, but don't really intend to become second

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[–] athairmor@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Negatively: Almost any clothing with more than a couple words of text.

Clothing with a prominent brand.

Clothing with right-wing political connotations.

Dyed blonde hair or hair dyed brown/black that should, obviously, be gray.

Tramp stamps. Japanese writing tattoos on non-Japanese. Face tattoos. Neck tattoos. Tattoos of pop culture themes.

Expensive cars. Dodge pickup-trucks. Harley Davidson motorcycles. Dodge Chargers. Teslas.

Police officers.

Positively: Normal clothing. Well-dressed but obviously not expensive clothing. ‘Funky’ style clothing. Clothing that would just look stupid on me.

Wildly dyed hair. Subtlety dyed hair that isn’t covering something up.

Tattoos that are, at least, fairly unique.

Glasses. (I don’t know, I’m prejudiced for people with glasses.)

Old women.

I could probably come up with a lot more. We’re all prejudiced in some way. It’s the things that we’re prejudiced about and how attached we are to those prejudices that define us.

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[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 6 points 1 week ago

One of my closest friends is a nurse (now general practice but did years in hospital A&E) and she wore crocs all the time. Changed my response to them completely.

[–] kcweller 6 points 1 week ago

I fucking hated crocs when they came out.

And then I went on a canoe vacation in Sweden and now I swear by them 😂

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