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For context, my gf and I were talking and I called her favorite shows, including adult swim shows and YouTubers stupid and said that Adult Swim artstyles were ugly.

I also said that Beavis and Butthead was a stupid show and asked why she watched it, and that I would never watch it because I hated it.

I apologized because I said everything wrong and mean, but I feel so bad.

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[–] lath@lemmy.world 5 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

Yes, you were wrong to say so, even if they are stupid and ugly. It's an insult to everyone who likes stupid and ugly everywhere. And also, please remember that your own interests are stupid and ugly in someone else's view. So by shaming others, you're really just shaming yourself. Which is also stupid and ugly.

But you've acknowledged that already, so feel better knowing you've already taken a step in the right direction. Keep going.

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 15 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Beavis and Butthead is awesome

[–] jaiden@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 hours ago
[–] Letstakealook@lemm.ee 3 points 4 hours ago

Maybe take more time in the future to decide if you actually need to share what you're thinking. You don't always have to comment, many times saying nothing is just fine.

[–] jdnewmil@lemmy.ca 9 points 6 hours ago

Well, if you truly feel that way there may be rocky days ahead anyway. Having an appreciation for your partner's sense of humor is kind of important.

[–] wendyz@piefed.social 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Damn dude 😭 Feels blunt, I hope she forgave you.

[–] nokturne213@sopuli.xyz 4 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

For her sake i hope she left them.

[–] wendyz@piefed.social 2 points 4 hours ago

Imagine hating your gf’s favorite TV show. My girlfriend never says she hates my shows even if she doesn’t watch them.