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Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

Mine would be :

"Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country" (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques VachΓ©.

For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one's identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

How about you?

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[–] DJDarren@sopuli.xyz 9 points 4 months ago (4 children)

I don't necessarily think it's underrated because it's the underpinning of a major religion, but;

Existence is suffering.

The first noble truth of Buddhism that I don't think enough people really grasp.

On first read, those three words sound like an angsty teen being all sad, but a deeper exploration tells us that to expect a life of ease and unending contentment is to set ourselves up for continued disappointment and anguish.

When I first really absorbed the meaning of this it actually made me feel incredible. I am alive, therefore my knee hurts. I am alive, so I'm worried for the welfare of those I love. And when I considered it even further I began to understand that this is something that connects us all, regardless of our status in the world. From the most powerful kings and presidents to those sleeping rough begging for change; we are all fundamentally the same.

For me, it's really helped me to push through boundaries that have stopped me being more assertive with those who are more powerful than I am; managers, bosses and such. My boss worries about stuff the same way I do. It's probably different stuff, sure, but he's still experiencing existential pain.

I am not a Buddhist, nor am I particularly spiritual. But I take a lot of inspiration from that phrase.

[–] squid_slime@lemm.ee 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

"Trust no one - not even yourself"

My dad told me this while going through a divorce. He was also going through a criminal trial due to his deviance.

Its one thing that stuck with me and I wish it didn't.

Another one is from Lenin: " 'There Are Decades Where Nothing Happens' and 'Weeks Where Decades Happen' "

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

The Lenin one has been on my mind for like a year now. We're coming up on the anniversary of the February revolution and I'm hoping that as things get worse we'll see the point where we have had enough.

[–] squid_slime@lemm.ee 4 points 4 months ago

Plenty of big flash points at current. I think we are seeing capitalism in disrepair, similar to 1920 Europe, world powers are rebalancing and competing for the now very limited resources. The working class are taking the brunt of the hardship and seek real change, and when trump can't make good on those promises we will see a real struggle.

Good luck out there comrade.

[–] Summa@lemmy.wtf 9 points 4 months ago

No matter how many books , videos you see , you cannot learn how to swim without entering the pool.

[–] Mobiuthuselah@lemm.ee 8 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Dad told me when I was young to "learn to drink your coffee black and cold and you'll never be disappointed."

I don't think he was just talking about coffee.

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[–] BeigeAgenda@lemmy.ca 8 points 4 months ago

A evergreen quote:

Those who fail to learn from history are doomed to repeat it.

[–] temporal_spider@lemm.ee 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

"Like they should have stopped Hitler at Munich, they should never let him get away with that, they was just asking for bad trouble." Peter Clemenza, The Godfather

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[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 7 points 4 months ago (4 children)

"Don't follow people - follow ideas" which seems more relevant today than ever before it seems.

[–] MrAlternateTape@lemm.ee 3 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I think there is a quote somewhere from someone that says people talk about people, smarter people talk about facts and even smarter people talk about ideas. I am probably murdering the quote, but it was something like that.

It makes sense though, talking about other people doesn't really provide much direction in life. Facts do provide more direction in life, but ideas really function as a pointer in a lot of situations when may not know what to do otherwise.

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Life's tough for everyone

-Grandpa

[–] VirtigoMommy@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 months ago

β€œIt only ever ends once, everything before that is just progress” -Jacob from lost lol

[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 6 points 4 months ago

Perhaps today is a good day to die. Prepare for ramming speed!

[–] PillBugTheGreat@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago

No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun.

[–] DecentM@lemmy.ml 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

"Nobody will take care of you if you don't take care of yourself"

Apply this to pushing back on contracts, double checking what you're asked to do, and putting yourself first, and you'll get a lot more respect in my experience. If you primarily put others first, your self will feel neglected. It doesn't mean you should not care for others, but that your highest priority should be yourself, and then others.

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[–] ikidd@lemmy.world 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Hitchens on the death of Jerry Falwell: "If they gave his corpse an enema, they could bury him in a matchbox."

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[–] currycourier@lemmy.world 5 points 4 months ago

"Someone once said that love is the best medicine. He was wrong, though; its crack." Source Unknown

[–] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

"be someones angel"

quote from this little video that really stuck with me, as silly as it might sound

https://youtu.be/Ib2bt28in1c

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[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 4 months ago

"republicans are pussies" - me. thanks

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)
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[–] jaypatelani@lemmy.ml 5 points 4 months ago

Wen in dbt breath deep

[–] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 months ago

It’s always darkest before the dawn.

How I interpret it is that when things get bad, and reach a new level of bad, that could be just what is needed for the pendulum to swing the other way, and swing extra hard.

Kind of like a Great Depression giving labour laws kind of a thing.

Gives me hope.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 4 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

The worst decisions make the best stories. - *Unknown *

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 4 months ago

Those who don't know history are doomed to repeat it. Those who know history are doomed to know it's repeating.

It's the second part that makes this otherwise well know phrase hit much closer to home for me.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

"Everything you want in life has teeth", by the writer Jonathan Carroll. I believe it means that everything you pursue will hurt you in some way.

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago

You can't leave the party if you can't find the door. Randall Jacobs, aka Uncle Bunky

obituary, worth reading

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