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I've been lurking for over a year and I finally made an account πŸŽ‰

Now that I can customize the communities I see I'm wondering, what communities are you part of/do you recommend?

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[–] Alk@lemmy.world 9 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Instead of joining communities, I browse all and block communities I don't like. That way I am always aware of new or newly federated communities.

[–] EwonRael@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago (2 children)

good idea! I've already started blocking the german meme communities because I don't speak german

[–] mke@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Lemmy has a languages setting that might be helpful here, but I never bothered to check what it actually does. Er, sorry. Just, it could be worth looking into.

Blocking certain country focused instances can help, too.

[–] Servais@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

By default you see everything.

If you start to select languages (Ctrl+Click on desktop, not sure about mobile), you won't see non-selected languages anymore.

Be careful to keep Undetermined as most of the content isn't tagged.

[–] Frog@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Yeah...

I changed the language and I thought I was shadow banned for a couple of weeks...

Not intuitive at all.

[–] Servais@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 6 months ago

Indeed, definitely some improvement to be made there

[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 months ago

I'm blocking you because it's annoying when people censor words...like PORN

[–] Dav09@lemmy.ml 8 points 6 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)
[–] sag@lemm.ee 6 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I have joined over 220 communities. You want me to comment all that?

BTW I mod !balatro@lemm.ee and !nokotan@ani.social

[–] kratoz29@lemm.ee 2 points 6 months ago

You want me to comment all that?

Nah mate, just share us your password to check the out personally πŸ‘€

[–] MattW03@lemmy.ca 4 points 6 months ago
[–] Servais@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

Welcome!

On my side

A bit more specific

There is a weekly thread on !newcommunities@lemmy.world that you can have a look at for some ideas.

You can also use https://lemmyverse.net/communities for suggestions, and set up your home instance using the house button so that they open there directly.

[–] EwonRael@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

amazing! thank you so much!

[–] Servais@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 6 months ago

You are welcome!

Just found another one I forgot: !gardening@lemmy.world

[–] Rolando@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago
[–] plactagonic@sopuli.xyz 2 points 6 months ago

For big communities there is no need, they will surface to all.

If you have some interests with specific community on lemmy give it a follow. There are lot of them with little traffic ~1 post/week, like !homebrewing@sopuli.xyz it is not dead just fewer posts compared to reddit.

Honestly, none, I just sorta watch Hot and let whatever algorithm guide posts toward my feed

[–] Peter1986C@lemmings.world 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Here is a dump from my subscriptions list:

AV1@lemmy.world

All Things Tom Scott@lemmy.zip

Android@lemmy.world

Archaeology@mander.xyz

Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world

Astronomy@mander.xyz

Bicycles@lemmy.ca

Bicycling@lemmy.world

Bike Commuting@lemmy.ml

Casual Conversation @lemm.ee

Comic Strips@lemmy.world

DIY@slrpnk.net

Do It Yourself@beehaw.org

Earth, Environment, and Geosciences@mander.xyz

Environment@beehaw.org

Europe@feddit.de

Fediverse@lemmy.zip

Film Photography@lemmy.world

Firefox@lemmy.world

Food and Cooking@beehaw.org

Free Software@lemmy.zip

Free and Open Source Software@beehaw.org

Games@lemmy.world

Gaming@beehaw.org

Gaming@lemmy.zip

Geography@mander.xyz

Geopolitics@sopuli.xyzHardware@lemmy.ml

History@mander.xyz

Humanities & Cultures@evistre@beehaw.org

I Made This@lemm.ee

KDE@lemmy.kde.social

Lemmings.worldLemmy@lemmy.ml

Lemmy Support@lemmy.ml

LemmyTools@lemmy.zip

LibreWolf@lemmy.ml

Limburg@feddit.nl

Linux@lemmy.world

Linux Gaming@lemmy.world

Linux Questions@lemmy.world

Linux Questions@lemmy.zip

Linux Troubleshooting and scripts@lemmy.zip

Linux.zip@lemmy.zip

Map Enthusiasts@sopuli.xyz

MapPorn@lemmy.world

Nederlands@lemmy.world

Nutrition@mander.xyz

Open Source@lemmy.mlOpenStreetMap community@lemmy.ml

Operating Systems@beehaw.org

Patient Gamers@sh.itjust.works

Politiek@lemmy.world

Reclaimed By Nature@lemmy.world

Science@beehaw.org

Science@mander.xyz

Science Communication@mander.xyz

Solarpunk technology@slrpnk.net

Space@beehaw.org

Sublinks@discuss.online

Sublinks Support@discuss.online

Technology@lemmy.world

Technology@beehaw.orgTechnology@lemmy.zip

The Signal messenger and protocol.@lemmy.ml

Video Game Art@sopuli.xyz

Video Game Artwork@lemmy.zip

Videos@lemmy.world

Videos@sopuli.xyz

Volt Europa@feddit.nl

Volt Nederland@feddit.nl

World News@beehaw.org

diy@InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.works

pics@lemmy.world

retro computing@lemmy.world

theNetherlands@feddit.nl

unixporn@lemmy.world

utility cycling@slrpnk.net

xkcd@lemmy.world

[–] InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.works 3 points 6 months ago (1 children)

diy@InEnduringGrowStrong@sh.itjust.works

You probably mentioned me by mistake and meant: !diy@sh.itjust.works ?
Have a nice one

[–] Peter1986C@lemmings.world 1 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Something went wrong there indeed. But I am not even sure how a mention of you got in there?

Probably aome autocomplete thing in the text editor, I dont know.
Anyway, hi.

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 0 points 6 months ago