4 pane comic of dolan on the left and spooderman on the right
pane 1 (dolan): cum join opensurce cummunity!
pane 2 (spooderman): shure! how joyn?
pane 3 (dolan): Here discord! (with discord logo)
pane 4 (spooderman with tears in eyes): y u do dis?
Telegram would be much better if you want some chat based discusstions. Search indexable forums are the best to find help
Managing chats and pinning rules/important info in single chat is much better imo to "manage" a chat community. I agree your points though