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[–] TangledHyphae@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I guess then I should just stay quiet and keep doing whatever I'm working on while listening passively.

[–] Smoogs@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Listening actively comes in more than one description. Cmon it cannot be painful to be there for someone else. Stop being obtuse on purpose. That’s just acting in bad faith.

[–] TangledHyphae@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

I think it comes down to the balance, most people want me to listen but do not care to listen to me. It is generally a selfish thing to demand from me my full attention without reciprocating. That is not bad faith in that case.