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Choosing Beggars

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Stories of people who are being way too picky when it comes to who they beg for a relationship or any other matter.

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[–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Mandatory tipping isn't a thing anywhere at all.

Not true, I've been to several restaurants that have small print on their menu along the lines of "a gratuity of X% will be automatically added to your bill", sometimes for parties over Y, sometimes after Z o'clock, sometimes just in general

[–] Rediphile@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That's just part of the price at that point. Sneaky for sure, and I wouldn't want to eat there... but it isn't a tip by definition.

[–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Gratuity is a fancy word for tip. It's a separate line item, no different than if you'd written it yourself when paying by card, except it's not voluntary.

[–] Rediphile@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago

My point is the actual definition of both gratuity and tip requires they be optional. Those businesses are using the word incorrectly, but that doesn't change the definition.

[–] ogoflowgo@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Just consider that a "hidden fee". You're probably already paying hidden fees on your cellphone bill, ISP bill, flights, hotels and Airbnb's. Shouldn't be too much of a stretch to get over it.