Sex

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The original was posted on /r/sex by /u/Calm-Pomelo883 on 2023-08-25 04:57:26.

I (19F) got in a relationship like three months ago with my boyfriend (19M).

For some backstory, I've been single for a good while, and since 18, I was pretty open sexually, having hookups and stuff like that. And when I accepted being his girlfriend, I said I wanted to... Have an open relationship, because I'm not ready to be in a monogamous relationship. But he didn't want it (even though he was one of my hookups, and he knew very well I had other people)

Now I got an OF, and he was kinda against it, but I eventually convinced him, and he is worried I'll cheat on him, which I would never dare do, I value loyalty very much. So to convince him I gave him access to my OF account, he can see everything I post and messages I have with clients.

He doesn't even want me to promote it to close friends, and damn he feels jealous from time to time when I compliment friends or others, or even when I mention anything about anyone else. I really feel like I'm not made for this :(

When it comes to lovemaking, he was a virgin, I was his first time (although he wasn't my first time) and... He is terrible at it. He just gets off, gives one minute head one minute fingers and then calls it a day. I cannot express how sexually frustrated I feel. The moment we stop, I want to get home to use some toys, because he can never make me orgasm, in any way. It is terrible.

And I no longer feel sexually attracted to him, like... I love him. But I simply can't enjoy lovemaking anymore. It feels dry, and I seriously want it to get better.