I'm not a "chad" by any stretch and rather introvert. Yet even I was hit on by women. And I had good times with them. Didn't always work out, but that's expected.

What you're trying to do here is essentially shifting blame. As I wrote above, there are about as many men as there are women. That means, if you can't find anyone, that means your imagined "worth" and your desired partner's "worth" are not the same - and not in your favor.

[–] ThatWeirdGuy1001@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm not desirable because I have resting bitch face. I always look like I'm angry even when I'm not. I'm also 6'3" so I'm imposing. I'm also covered in tattoos and scars some of which are obviously from self harm.

All of these individually are reasons for women to be uninterested in me. All of them together make me damn near impossible to approach.

And even when I do approach women they're so busy being afraid of my physical appearance they can't see that I'm not even close to a threat to them.

[–] agressivelyPassive@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago

And that is not any women's fault.

BTW: there's a good chance, that your way of approaching other people is far more threatening/aggressive than you might think.