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[–] n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com -2 points 2 years ago (8 children)

Jesus fuck, people need to grow a spine. There are much more pressing matters to cry about. Half the fucking planet is on fire but no, let's cry about a word.

I grew up on the obese side, was made fun of for it my entire childhood. Do I get offended when I am called fat? No I laugh it off, because it's true. At some point it's better to not be offended all day

[–] autismdragon@hexbear.net 32 points 2 years ago (2 children)

We can can care about more than one thing at a time lol. Do you also think black people should just "get over" the n word because global warming exists? Or gay people with the f slur? Do you think that women should stop complaining about sexual harassment in the workplace because global warming exists? Those are often "just words" after all. I care deeply about global warming and want to do things about it, probably more than you do, but that doesn't mean I have to be ok with words meant to insult and attack me and people like me.

Idk if this rhetoric will work with you because you probably do think those things, at least about the slurs.

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 17 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

You're arguing with a militant apathy enthusiast that wants to say edgy South Park tier shit and get no pushback from it, because they're allowed to be offended at others getting offended and that's the only offense allowed according to "nothing offends me" reddit-logo types.

[–] n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 years ago

Think y'all got me figured out eh? I just think getting offended by words is pointless. Esp when shit isn't directed towards you...

[–] n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 2 years ago

This wasn't about you till you made it about you, you were not the target of a slur. Now fuck off as we would prolly never get along and arguing about something stupid is pointless.

[–] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 29 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Just stop being a weird hostile fuck when someone takes away your comfort slur shrug-outta-hecks

[–] n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 2 years ago

Not a comfort, just how I talk. I grew up with retard meaning to be mentally slow or a stupid action. The offence y'all are taking is fucking retarded

[–] AcidSmiley@hexbear.net 20 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I have internalized my own abuse to the point where i sound like a reactionary redditor and so should you

[–] n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 years ago

No, I realized they are only words and when you make fun of the thing they are making fun of you for, that thing stops being fun. It's called psychology

[–] take_five_seconds@hexbear.net 19 points 2 years ago (1 children)

multiple things can matter at once

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 15 points 2 years ago

Caring a whole lot about not caring and making sure no one cares too much is the definition of maturity for "nothing offends me" reddit-logo types.

[–] UlyssesT@hexbear.net 16 points 2 years ago (1 children)

people need to grow a spine

You first.

Stop being a crybully because your edgy slurs aren't welcome here.

At some point it's better to not be offended all day

Except you are right in that post because you're not getting praised for your stale edgy slurs. Do you have any fucking self awareness at all, you reddit-logo brained crybully?

[–] n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 2 years ago

I'm not the one crying over a word that was not directed at anyone in particular. The meme is technically wrong and is stupid

That's part of my autism I don't have filters.

Thanks for being the bully in this transaction

[–] aaaaaaadjsf@hexbear.net 9 points 2 years ago (2 children)

It's pretty clear the user autism dragon has a spine, that's why they're telling you to back off instead of accepting you using a term they find hurtful

[–] Gelamzer@hexbear.net 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

being spineless is when stand up for yourself galaxy-brain

[–] n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 years ago

That isn't standing up for one's self, that is being a Karen. If you want the internet censored use a word blocker yourself. Till then every last one of y'all can fuck off

[–] n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 2 years ago

You call being a full Karen having a spine? Lmfao