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[โ€“] galoisghost@aussie.zone 84 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[โ€“] GammaGames@beehaw.org 15 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They want everything to be public with an open source license fwiw

[โ€“] paequ2@lemmy.today 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Currently, I'm doing:

  • Codeberg for anything decent that can be public and open source
  • sr.ht for shitty or private stuff

Although, I'm planning to get off sr.ht long term because...

[โ€“] Jayjader@jlai.lu 4 points 1 day ago

Damn, thanks for linking that report. I have appreciated devault's work for almost a decade, this is a good reminder that just because someone's public actions align with my values does not automatically mean they are infallible nor should they be canonized.

[โ€“] balsoft@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Well shit. I will still self-host sourcehut because it's so cool from a technical standpoint, but now with disgust for its author

[โ€“] anomie@piefed.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

git.gay is also a cool git host

[โ€“] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 17 points 1 day ago (2 children)
[โ€“] pineapple@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Ok my deleted message was: "Saying gay as a synonym for bad or weird is homophobic."

But I'm not really sure if it is in the context you were saying in, this could be taken as a stance in terms of making fun of people who say gay as a synonym for bad or weird. In which case it is totally ok to be mean to homophobes.

I'm kinda confused is this homophobic or not?

[โ€“] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 10 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

To be gay is absolutely completely 100% fine. But it's also, like, really gay. Does that help?

[โ€“] Kertyna 2 points 14 hours ago

Stop already, you're gonna break their brain.

[โ€“] EveryMuffinIsNowEncrypted@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think they were just making a joke because git.gay.

As in, not as bad or weird but more making fun of the homophobic "it's gay" argument that used to be used.

I do the same thing with my spousy occasionally. We're gay as hell, so it's funny as shit when I stroll by their room and just say, "Gaaaaaaaay~". Lol.

[โ€“] pineapple@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

I just had a pretty intense argument with my friends about this and we ultimately came to the same conclusion as you pretty much.