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When you say "asexual", do you mean you hate it, or you don't hate it and don't mind your romantic partner doing it with you?
This varies from ace to ace. With me?
I am not repulsed but I am violently disinterested
A partner wants to fuck? Sure, I guess? If it makes them happy and I like them. But like. I'll never go out of my way to try and get sex.