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[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 0 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Some of the men's comments on here venting about how rough they had it dating really need to listen to women's dating stories more often. The level of violence does not compare.

[–] beegnyoshi@lemmy.zip 19 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I don't want you to take me badly, but to me this comment sounded really demeaning. Obviously women have it way worse than men, but you see a comment with a men venting about their personal experiences and the first thing that comes to mind is "women have it worse"?

I could understand this comment in the context of the app, and how people are making fun of it when its purpose is to try to solve such a common and awful problem in dating--but in the context of the comments of men venting here, it really just sounds like you're invalidating their experiences just because they're not women.

[–] kieron115@startrek.website 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Spoken by someone who has clearly never been emotionally abused by a woman. Not all violence is physical. "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned".

[–] reksas@sopuli.xyz 18 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

violent assholes make things worse for both men and women. Women for obvious reasons and men because women have to be more wary.

[–] joel_feila@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] yeahiknow3@lemmings.world -1 points 1 day ago

Yes. Everyone should listen to everyone else. And as a man, I promise you women have it wayyyyyy worse. I definitely won the gender lottery. Sorry ladies and Godspeed.

[–] Krudler@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Clueless.

Women are insanely violent and abusive to men, just not so much physically.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world -2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My government issued a report a few years back that estimated male vs female domestic abuse rates to differ in about one order of magnitude.

Also, for every one tragic story about one man's abuse I have about ten more from women.

It's lopsided in both quantity and severity, don't even.