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[–] plyth@feddit.org 3 points 4 days ago (16 children)

Best places in the world to have a kid and we still can’t manage to have 2 kids per couple.

So obviously not good enough. It doesn't have to be material, values or expectations could also be not good enough.

[–] CAVOK@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (15 children)

One year paid leave per kid per parent, almost free child care, free health care, free dental for kids, free education up to and including university, both parents expected to be on leave, can't get fired for taking leave. Oh, and you get a government alimony of about €100 per month. This is for Sweden, other nordics might differ slightly.

Having kids in the nordics is insanely good, I don't know what else we could do.

If we didn't have immigration our population would decline, along with our living standards.

[–] plyth@feddit.org -1 points 4 days ago (14 children)

How easy is it to get housing for a family of 5? How is child care if a child is sick? How high is the expectation for women to lose weight after birth and look good?

If people have 2 children but not 3 then something is missing. It could be that a third child is simply too expensive, even though almost all resources were bought for the first two children. It could be that parents are already too old and don't want to lose more sleep. Maybe all TV shows just show two children.

There must be a reason. Enumerating good conditions says not much about what is missing.

[–] richardwonka@mas.to 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

@plyth - What kind of a troglogdyte are you?
Or, to give the benefit of the doubt, have you celebrated your 12th birthday yet?

Your comments and _arguments_ are so inane to almost _have_ to be parody.

[–] plyth@feddit.org 1 points 2 days ago

Then for sure you can tell me what is wrong instead of insulting me.

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