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I know tons of trans people on discord. What makes it unsafe for them?
I think there's a disconnect between people who use discord as an IM client and people who use discord as a way to find communities. Ive been using discord since like the friends and family alpha, and I've never once joined a server that was larger than "4-12 people I know irl who hate group texts." The way I understand and think about discord is drastically different from somebody who uses it more like a decentralized forum full of hobby or creator driven communities. I'd guess that the latter half is what is being referred to as dangerous for trans folk, but again I cannot confirm as discord is functionally equivalent to like MSN messenger for me
I'm part of some pretty large discord communities and I wouldn't describe any of them as hostile to trans people. However, I am not trans, so I was curious if there was some insight I was missing out on.
Discord has been really useful to find and talk to other trans people
I wouldn't personally call the whole platform unsafe. A lot of big servers, yeah not gonna be too great.