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Best: None. Weddings are pretty boring. I had fun at mine I guess but I got chewed out afterwards because people kept coming to me and asking me to do things and apparently I was supposed to be glued to my new wifes side the whole time.
Worst: Went to a friends wedding, somehow got mistaken as the groom by the priest, which I cleared up, but then during the ceremony the priest said, "I believe that with the power of Jesus any marriage can work, even between people of different races" while looking directly at me, the only non-white (Lakota) person in the entire room.
Who chewed you out?
imagine it was the wife, mine also complained that I was spending too much time with the guests we'd invited to our wedding. With hindsight, it was not a great indicator for the rest of the marriage.
That's what I was thinking. You're not a 5 year old at your own birthday party, you're the adult host of an event.