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I've been straight as far as I can remember with some questioning, but the thought came to me. All I hang out with is straight people. My friends are straight, my fiancé is straight. But what if I'm bi and I like girls? What if I'm just "straight" because it's the norm? Women are pretty and there's a small chance I'd date one even if I'm not interested in dating women but what if that's just heteronormativity and such. How do I even know if I actually am bi but it's repressed? Or if I am straight?

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If u r serious, I suggest talking to LGBTQ specific therapist. They will probably guide u through this sexuality journey. For me, my therapist help me realize that I'm trans woman.