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What is Neurodivergence?

It's ADHD, Autism, OCD, schizophrenia, anxiety, depression, bi-polar, aspd, etc etc etc etc

“neurologically atypical patterns of thought or behavior”

So, it’s very broad, if you feel like it describes you then it does as far as we're concerned


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With the escalation in Gaza and West Bank on top of the incident I'm going to limit how much I spend on telegram, lemmy, etc. because I can get massively hyperfocussed on this shit. Feels a lot like when the Ukraine Russia war heated up and I was stuck to my phone 8 hours a day.

I'm lucky enough to have started my meds recently which are absolutely eviscerating my anxiety, but others aren't so lucky.

Maybe delete a couple of apps and limit your exposure for a couple of days so even if you DO doomscroll it's less paralysing.

The new world struggles to be born ❤️

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[–] SovietBeerTruckOperator@hexbear.net 15 points 22 hours ago (6 children)

I've grown weirdly Zen about this shit.

I've just accepted I don't have any real control over anything and what happens happens. I'm just trying to enjoy myself, been playing a lot of Stardew and drinking wine, rewatching old BOTW episodes I like, taking naps.

If something happens I'll either adapt or die, if nothing happens hopefully I'll be able to keep chugging along.

[–] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 7 points 20 hours ago (5 children)

I've had more free time and I just check news sites and hex news all the time. Is stardew worth playing? I want new hobbies

[–] BanSwitch2Buyers@hexbear.net 7 points 20 hours ago (3 children)

Stardew's pretty relaxing and it's nice to have a game with a mix of short-term and long-term goals because it feels good to accomplish stuff in it.

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 1 points 8 hours ago

stardew is either relaxing or incredibly stressful depending on how you play games, the time limits are evil

[–] ElChapoDeChapo@hexbear.net 7 points 19 hours ago

Stardew's pretty relaxing

For you at least, for me the time limits and my own inner perfectionist making me reset over and over again in persuit of the perfect day makes it very stressful for me

Never made it past year 1, still love the game

[–] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 2 points 19 hours ago

Thanks might check it out. I'll see if I can pirate

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